QOTW: “How Can I Tell If He Likes Me?!”

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The question... I enjoy watching all of your videos!! I am black and 19 years old. In a couple of weeks I will  be 20 years old. I live in Alabama. … [Read more...]

Swirling In History: Vintage News Clippings of Couples Who Dared to Love When It Was Damn Scary

Raymond Stough and Beatrice Williams Wed in Chicago with 1000 guest  Jet Mag July 17, 1952

We don't need Black History Month to know about swirling black women throughout history.  But since it is February, and I like history I thought it … [Read more...]

Janet Jackson Rumored to Divorce: Are Some Differences Just Too Difficult to Overcome?

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Gossip rags are all a twitter about news that Janet Jackson (age 47) and husband Wissam Al Mana (age 39) may be headed for Splitsville. And I can't … [Read more...]

All In Her Smile

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Misha Tague shared such a cute story of how she met her husband Jason with me, that I decided to share with you in BBW-land. Jason works … [Read more...]

Check Out this ChoNilla Couple: The Nive Nulls

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Where you and your partner are from? Kansas City, MO Both of your age? I'm 24. She's 27. Same birthday, actually.  Fun fact :-) How you … [Read more...]

How Long Should You Hang On to Your Marriage?

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By Jane Brown Do you know how long marriage expert Mort Fertel says you should work on your marriage, once the thought of divorce enters your … [Read more...]

Model Lanisha Cole Fires Back On Haters of Her Non-Black Fiance

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If you've ever watched The Price is Right or Deal or No Deal, you've probably seen Lanisha Cole prancing around the set. With a gorgeous set of legs … [Read more...]

Circles of Support: What Do All These Women Have In Common?

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What do we all have in common? We all love yoga, of course. But that's not all. Each of us are interracially and inter culturally married. Starting … [Read more...]

Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working” Black Woman?

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I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK … [Read more...]

You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind “Feminism”


In my previous article on the whole "gold digger" meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the word gold … [Read more...]

Yolette and Dustin, Wedded Bliss

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I met Yvette Joseph Burger via Swirling and Marriage.  Yolette submitted some of her gorgeous wedding photos and now I am sharing with you.  I got a … [Read more...]