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Why Do Some Black Women Think I’m Trying to “Force” Them to Swirl?!

So...I've made it my business to really cease and desist addressing folks that take cheap shots at me, my work, and this site. They can steadily say … [Read more...]

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The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Should You Date at Your Workplace?

Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I've gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: XXL Big Daddy’s and Taco Meat For All!!

Are you the type of woman who likes things in large doses? I'll be the first to admit it, I like to indulge in my vices, men included. So for all of … [Read more...]

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What? Interracial Romance Novels are on’s Radar. That’s Huge.

Before I start, I just want to give a shout out to all my folks who bring stories they know I like to cover. You make my life tremendously easier. XO … [Read more...]


Long Time BB&W Fan, Shaun Brown Marries His Beloved!

You might remember Shaun Brown, a big fan of the blog who is also a staunch Christian and conservative. I only mention that because there's often a … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday (Night Cap): Now Come to Bed….

Yes, there comes a time in a woman's life where she will have to make a decision. Should she, or should she not, join him in bed? Beds are for … [Read more...]

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QOTW: Black Father Blames Himself for Daughter’s Interracial Dating Choice

Here's the question: Dear Christelyn , A very heart breaking issue has arisen in my family because of my dating preferences. A brief history: I … [Read more...]

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Feminism Series: Real Reasons Women Aren’t Happy During Pregnancy…..Including Black Women, Too

So the conversation rages on over the real meaning behind the study released by Stephen Wu and Paul Hagstrom revealing the level of unhappiness … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Long Hair, Don’t Care

I love men of all shapes and sizes. Though you can usually catch a well groomed man on my arm I do hold a place in my peripheral for those who forgo … [Read more...]

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Hear it from a Man’s Perspective When He’s the Recipient of “Something New” for You

By "Zac Onbothsides" There we were, wow, she was stunning.  The conversation was easy, we were laughing.  We talked about our families and … [Read more...]

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Happy Humpday: A Tiny Ember or a Raging Inferno (Does Size Really Matter?)

Congratulations! You've made it to midweek. Only a few more days to go. So since you've got some time on your hands and may find yourself sitting … [Read more...]

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How to Mack To An Asian Guy…

  I swear, I WISH I had known how incredibly cool and down-to-earth Asian guys were when I was younger...maybe for romance, but at least … [Read more...]

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Monday Man Candy: April Showers Bring May Flowers

The birds are enthusiastically chirping each morning. The days are a little longer and the natives are wearing less clothes. Indeed, Spring is in the … [Read more...]