Trash Pick Me Relationship “Advice”

You don’t need me to tell you that relationships these days are hard work. Even if you get past the preliminary vetting stages to make sure he is no... READ MORE

Solange and Alan: Parting is Such Sweet Sorrow

We have some more black love news for everyone. Unfortunately, it is not pleasant. Solange and her husband of four years are getting divorced. Accordi... READ MORE

What do you gain from incessant manstroking?

Written by Nicole J. I spend a lot of time online in black women circles. The topics are vast, ranging from hair and makeup to keto recipes to cleanin... READ MORE

Twitter After Dark: Life, Love and the Pursuit of ...

The title is a little sensational, but bear with me. This post is going to be spicy! The other day, I left a work event very late. When I came home, I... READ MORE

The Pink Pill Meets a Real-Life African Princess, ...

If you haven’t started following Korra Obidi Dean on Instagram, you’re missing out on an eyeful of delight. This Nigerian singer and dance... READ MORE

The Photograph Movie: First Impressions

As an aside, this post is dedicated to all of the lovely ladies who encourage us to post more about black love. It never ceases to amuse me that peopl... READ MORE

Is Birthing 14 Black Babies the Epitome of Black L...

Written by Nicole J.   I have never seen a full episode of Black Women Own The Conversation, just clips. The clips tell me all I need to know, re... READ MORE

Jade and Tom: A New Perspective, Part 2

After I posted a picture of another couple on our social media, Jade and Tom reached out. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to speak with them.... READ MORE

Jade and Tom: One Year of Love, Part One

After I posted a picture of another couple on our social media, Jade and Tom reached out. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to speak with them.... READ MORE

Niecy Nash: How NOT to keep a man

Written by Nicole J. Niecy Nash sadly reported that she and her husband Jay Tucker are calling it quits after eight years of marriage. This is especia... READ MORE

He’s Just Not That Into You: The Case of Angela ...

Thanks to Nic and Christelyn, I have been challenged to expand my writing repertoire beyond my weekly interviews. While I will still be interviewing c... READ MORE

Should black women say bye to bi guys?

Written by Nicole J. There has been much chat about the sexual practices and beliefs of some celebrity black men of late. Malik Yoba has been catching... READ MORE

Jealousy: Meghan, Wendy, and Candace

Written by Nicole J. Meghan, Duchess of Sussex has been in headlines more this week, following a documentary airing her struggles with adjusting to ro... READ MORE

Nicki Minaj – A Cautionary Tale

Written by Nicole J.  Nicki Minaj apparently married her felonious boyfriend Kenneth Petty this week, and while I’m saddened by the subterranea... READ MORE