Question of the Week: “Is My Weight Keeping Me Out of the Interracial Dating Game?”


Got this note from a reader.... I have this huge problem and I know that you have the most current insight on the answer. I would love to … [Read more...]

Celebrity Swirling: Zoe and Bradley Back Together!!

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Ah...this made my Sunday. From The YBF: It looks like the couple had a little sleepover the previous night as Zoe was spotted outside her home … [Read more...]

Niala’s 19th Birthday Bash in London!!


My mom always told me as you get older you get less excited for your birthday. As a kid I never believed her. I was always excited for the next … [Read more...]

An Open Letter To My Hunny on Our First Anniversary


Dear Jay, How one whole year has come and gone is absolutely beyond me. Time speeds by around us so quickly it seems like twelve months have zoomed … [Read more...]

The Racial Switch-A-Roo: What One BB&W Girl Learned from an Informal Online Dating Experiment

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By "Kia" Visit her blog, The Perils of Online dating: Exotic vs. 'Regular' Black A few nights ago, the evil genius in me … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: How come I can attract all these non white men, but white men show no interest at all?


Hello Christelyn! I really love your site and I have been a lurker for a while now. I really appreciate what you are doing for all black women out … [Read more...]

News Bits: Swirl Watching…


Hmmm...what's this? Serena Williams has moved on from Common and Drake to her French tennis instructor? Ratchet site, MediaTakeOut caught a shot of … [Read more...]

Perfect….Or Not: One Woman’s Take on Online Dating


By Brenda Brody Fellas, can I speak to you a second? This online dating thing….we’re trying it out and hoping to meet someone we really like. … [Read more...]

Liars and Gaslighters: How the New Anti-Swirling Meme Falls Flat

Sticking out tongues

It seems like every week there's a new anti-swirling article on so-called black women's interest blogs, and I have to wonder why. I mean, we're so … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XV- “Hey Baby, What’s your Sign? Can I Get Your Number?”


When I’m in a dating rut like the one I’m in now, I like to use my free time to get reacquainted with myself. Get your mind out the gutter (or was … [Read more...]

Ladies, Don’t Sleep on “Swirling” AND Online Dating: One European Man’s Take

'Mr. Netherlands'

I'm often befuddled by the fact that BB&W has almost 1,000 You Tube subscribers, and I wonder who the heck are all these people watching. Imagine … [Read more...]