Question of the Week: “Is My Weight Keeping Me Out of the Interracial Dating Game?”

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Got this note from a reader.... I have this huge problem and I know that you have the most current insight on the answer. I would love to … [Read more...]

Celebrity Swirling: Zoe and Bradley Back Together!!

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Ah...this made my Sunday. From The YBF: It looks like the couple had a little sleepover the previous night as Zoe was spotted outside her home … [Read more...]

Niala’s 19th Birthday Bash in London!!

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My mom always told me as you get older you get less excited for your birthday. As a kid I never believed her. I was always excited for the next … [Read more...]

An Open Letter To My Hunny on Our First Anniversary

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Dear Jay, How one whole year has come and gone is absolutely beyond me. Time speeds by around us so quickly it seems like twelve months have zoomed … [Read more...]

The Racial Switch-A-Roo: What One BB&W Girl Learned from an Informal Online Dating Experiment

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By "Kia" Visit her blog, TheMoxieSophic.com The Perils of Online dating: Exotic vs. 'Regular' Black A few nights ago, the evil genius in me … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: How come I can attract all these non white men, but white men show no interest at all?

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Hello Christelyn! I really love your site and I have been a lurker for a while now. I really appreciate what you are doing for all black women out … [Read more...]

News Bits: Swirl Watching…

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Hmmm...what's this? Serena Williams has moved on from Common and Drake to her French tennis instructor? Ratchet site, MediaTakeOut caught a shot of … [Read more...]

Perfect….Or Not: One Woman’s Take on Online Dating

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By Brenda Brody Fellas, can I speak to you a second? This online dating thing….we’re trying it out and hoping to meet someone we really like. … [Read more...]

Liars and Gaslighters: How the New Anti-Swirling Meme Falls Flat

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It seems like every week there's a new anti-swirling article on so-called black women's interest blogs, and I have to wonder why. I mean, we're so … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XV- “Hey Baby, What’s your Sign? Can I Get Your Number?”

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When I’m in a dating rut like the one I’m in now, I like to use my free time to get reacquainted with myself. Get your mind out the gutter (or was … [Read more...]

Ladies, Don’t Sleep on “Swirling” AND Online Dating: One European Man’s Take

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I'm often befuddled by the fact that BB&W has almost 1,000 You Tube subscribers, and I wonder who the heck are all these people watching. Imagine … [Read more...]