Ukraine Swirl on the Big Screen!

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I am a certified Swirl Hunter and can find black women swirlers or swirl-related news in the outer most regions of the Earth.  Imagine my surprise … [Read more...]

Take Your Show (a)broad!


Ladies, many of you want to go to Europe, Asia or Australia. I am an advocate of international travel if for nothing else, the experience, different … [Read more...]

Five Reasons You’re NOT Ready to Swirl

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Thousands of people come to this site every day. Some are curious about interracial relationships. Some are already happily swirled, others are hoping … [Read more...]

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part IV, “The Look”

This has been an interesting experience; this Swirling thing.  Something that I have already discovered is the shocked or surprised look that people … [Read more...]

“White Men Best Natural Allies in Battle to Counter Negative Misconceptions of Black Women,” Says Oakland Rainbeau

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You might remember the video I posted last week featuring the unseen white guy who commented at a SWIRLING event Janice and I attended hosted by Meet … [Read more...]

Ready to Join the Convent? Nine Tips to Make Dating Easier.

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Before you throw in the towel and give up dating altogether, take inventory of what's not working. Take a look at SwirlQueen's … [Read more...]

Let’s Hear It from the Boys: Why Flirting and Romantic Overtures Often Fall Flat

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This video was taken a few weeks ago when Janice and I went to a book discussion with the Meet Up group, Sisters and White Misters. This was by far … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XVII- Confessions of a Lovelorn Quester


I’ve been a bad, bad girl. See, what had happened was . . . well, before I tell you what had happened, let me try to explain why it had … [Read more...]

EarthJeff’s “Swirling on Planet Earth Part III”: The Kids


Continued from "Swirling on Planet Earth Part II" So I mentioned in the other post that Bee and I both have kids.  BG1 is Bee’s first daughter, and … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Why is it Everyone’s Business If Some Black Women Have a Preference for Non-Black Men?


I got this note from a regular reader and I thought it was worth it for all of ya'll to read... Dear Christelyn, Over the past few months I have … [Read more...]