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The Exotic Okey Doke: How Black Women Got Tricked Out Of Sexy


This post was published on July 26, 2013 by Toni. Things quickly got out of hand in the comment section, derailing into talking about women-friendly … [Read more...]

“After I Met Your Mother”: Rainbeaus, Tell Us Your Courtship Stories in the Comments.


You have lurked long enough now. Any rainbeaus with dating, courting, marrying, or family creation stories, time to spill it. We know you got 'em. The … [Read more...]

Getting Familiar with His Familia: Meeting His Family For the First Time


The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXIV- Blurred Lines

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Some people sure know how to spoil a good time. To be honest, I was really unconcerned over the Blurred Lines controversy. The song has become part of … [Read more...]

Video: (most) Black Women Aren’t Sex-Starved Jezebels, So Come Correct in Online Overtures!

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Got another letter from my YouTube Channel (by the way, have you subbed yet?) Some of my male alum from high school (the married ones) have some … [Read more...]

Video: Asian Men and Black Women Give Advice on How to Date Each Other

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I got a chance to meet up with one of the largest AM/BW groups (500 strong) while on my trip to New York last month. What was said was candid and … [Read more...]

Greg and Vena: Sometimes You Just Have To Take the Plunge!

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After the bad news yesterday, I thought we all could use a bit of good news. Meet Greg and Vena, who wanted to share with BB&W that they took the … [Read more...]

Want To Marry a Kiwi Guy? New Zealand is Ripe for IR!


For as long as I have been coaching black women wanting to date and marry internationally, I have been asked what countries are best for swirling. … [Read more...]

Get Brand New On Um: 5 Ways to Reinvent, Rejuvenate and Refresh Your Life Right Now


Routines can be both a good and a bad thing. The ability to go about your life without having to put much thought into what you are doing and where … [Read more...]

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Where Were You? Loving Day Flagship Event Was Off the Chain!


I was stoked that me and Maxi got a chance to attend the Loving Day flagship event in New York City this year so I can spank all of you East Coasters … [Read more...]

Video: White Men Dish on Why They Love Black Women…The “Darker the Better??”

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I'm becoming more intrigued with the non-Tyler Perry offerings over at the OWN Network. Take a look-see what's coming. Dark Girls, a fascinating and … [Read more...]