New POF Survey Supports What I’ve Been Saying: Where You Live Can Determine Your Love-Life Success


If you live in California, turns out that living near the water gives you better relationship prospects than living inland, according to a survey by … [Read more...]

Smiling is Only the Beginning…Other Get-the-Guy Moves You Should Be Trying


If you're planning to go to happy hour tonight on the slim chance you might meet Mr. Potential, you probably already know that you can't be hiding … [Read more...]

QOTW: “Should a Woman Ever Play Down Her Accomplishments to Attract a Man?”

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I got this question from a pretty successful friend of mine, and it took me a while to answer because I wanted to make sure I wasn't coming from a … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXV- My May-December Summer Romance

I’ve got good news and bad news. The good news is (drumroll please) I finally got a full-time permanent job in my hometown of Philadelphia, the city … [Read more...]

Dominic Ripoli: “Interracial” is the Wrong Word

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By Dominic Ripoli I have loved black women since I have had the know-how of sexual preference. Which if we are all honest with ourselves was at a … [Read more...]

My Favorite Swirling Cities


I have lived in some beautiful cities most of which were great swirling cities within the US and visited several outside of our borders. I would like … [Read more...]

Ever Been Too Embarrassed to Go Out with Your Rainbeau?


Robin Thicke is straight ratchet. He says in an interview with Howard Stern that he smokes weed all day long. With a kid. Not to be all judge-y … [Read more...]

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 11 – The “three finger, three second” relationships rule

  Now that I am becoming SO experienced in relationship matters (quit rolling your eyes, that was said “tongue-in-cheek”)….  I want to share … [Read more...]

DUPLICATE POST with fresh comment thread ~ comments about porn will be deleted

The Exotic Okey Doke: How Black Women Got Tricked Out Of Sexy


This post was published on July 26, 2013 by Toni. Things quickly got out of hand in the comment section, derailing into talking about women-friendly … [Read more...]

QOTW Audience Feedback Edition: “How Can I Convince This Black Woman I’m Serious About Her?


  I got this letter a couple days ago but just got around to reading it. Take a look, dearies--this one is all you. I'm super busy with … [Read more...]