QOTW: Quirky Girl Wants to Date Interracially. Som...

Here’s the question… I’m 30 yrs old and a grad student in college. I live in a pretty segregated city. I’m primarily intereste... READ MORE

Is Marriage Only For The Rich?

No, it’s not only for the rich. One might think so after reading this article in the Atlantic. Gone are the Cinderella days when a poor or work... READ MORE

QOTW: Her First Interracial Relationship, Long Dis...

I’m 20 years old and a college student. I recently went on vacation and ended up meeting this amazing guy. We are opposites on the outside and a... READ MORE

Black Women, Swirling, and Self-Sabotage

Saturday I got the kick-ass pleasure of attending the Atlanta premier of My Last Day Without You, starring Nicole Beharie (Sleepy Hollow, anyone?) and... READ MORE

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXVI- Bruised but not B...

  Sweet Jesus, the last six weeks of my life have been exasperating! Once I returned from St. Louis I had only 5 days to pack up my belongings an... READ MORE

Anthony Robinson, Founder of iloveblackwomen.net, ...

Since Mr. Anthony Robinson announced that he was starting a dating site for black women and men (of all races/ethnicities) who were interested in dati... READ MORE

The Verdict is In: All Black Women MUST Consider S...

Longtime Newsweek writer, Ellis Cose might just have stepped in a big old pile of doo-doo. Finally, an educated BLACK MAN has joined the chorus with R... READ MORE

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 12 –...

    So… time for just some random musings of a wonderful relationship that just keeps rolling along… Bee and I went to a drive-in mo... READ MORE

Swirling and Music – Lillie McCloud

   Lillie McCloud Just who is the beautiful bombshell that got Simon Cowell on his feet in praise?  Why it’s new diva on the scene Lillie... READ MORE

Older Latin Man Wants Younger Black Woman…Sh...

Here’s the question. Meet me in the comments section for your take. Christelyn, I think this is not just one single question, I think I am looki... READ MORE

Video: Matthew Hussey Schools You On How to Meet 1...

I can’t tell you how many stories I get on email and via our fan page from women who want to meet quality men but don’t or won’t do ... READ MORE

New POF Survey Supports What I’ve Been Sayin...

If you live in California, turns out that living near the water gives you better relationship prospects than living inland, according to a survey by P... READ MORE

Smiling is Only the Beginning…Other Get-the-...

If you're planning to go to happy hour tonight on the slim chance you might meet Mr. Potential, you probably already know that you can't be hiding beh... READ MORE

QOTW: “Should a Woman Ever Play Down Her Acc...

I got this question from a pretty successful friend of mine, and it took me a while to answer because I wanted to make sure I wasn't coming from a pla... READ MORE