Reader Letter: Black Woman Married to a Black Man Sees the Site for What It Is

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I love it when people finally "get" it. The letter... I pop in on your site from time to time and my feelings about what you are trying to do have … [Read more...]

SavageTango tells all: Getting his attention

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SavageTango Let me say right off I've been down this road on numerous occasions. I'm no stranger to the issues you've raised and understand … [Read more...]

Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Comment on Her Sexiness?

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A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it's own … [Read more...]

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”: An Open Letter

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  Dear "Nothing But A Brother" and "I Don't Date White Guys" black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season all you'd hope it would … [Read more...]

Troll Crushing 101: Comment Gems from the BB&W Crew

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Some of the best content on this site can be found in our comment section.  Oh we love our readers!!!!!! In this installment of Gems from the … [Read more...]

What Happens When Family Refuses Kumbya: One Reader Recounts Decades of Shabby Treatment Over His Interracial Marriage

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Some of the best content on this site is found among the comments that we receive from readers like you. Many of you have great stories to tell and a … [Read more...]

“After I Met Your Mother”: Rainbeaus, Tell Us Your Courtship Stories in the Comments.

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You have lurked long enough now. Any rainbeaus with dating, courting, marrying, or family creation stories, time to spill it. We know you got 'em. The … [Read more...]

What Black Men Say When Black Women Aren’t Around

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What do men talk about when women aren't around? Is the conversation different based on the races, ages and culture of the men? Did you ever wish … [Read more...]

Sapphire On a Side Note: Patriarchy, Purity and the Obviously Intimidated Phallus

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Thanks to this side conversation started by the lovely and talented Toni M where she asked What comes first? The Mammie or her sister/evil split … [Read more...]

Claiming vs. Exclusion Part 2: Discrimination in IRR/BW-centric circles?

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I swear when I wrote this post, I thought that it was all I had to say on the matter. And then "diamondgirl" left this comment and son of a gun, there … [Read more...]