For the Guys: Seduce Her Mind, Her Body Will Follow!

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I will be the first to admit I spend WAY too much time on Facebook. Judge me if you like, but I "LIKE" it. And plus, that's how I get you all so much … [Read more...]

Breaking ‘Swirling’ News! Gallup Poll Shows Record Approval for Interracial Relationships

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The worm has turned. The wind has changed direction. The GAT-DL has been defeated. Because according to Gallup, which is like, the GOLD STANDARD … [Read more...]

Online Dating Success: E-Harmonizes Alex and Becca!

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To all those of the BB&W Crew who are cynical and discouraged about online dating, take heart. It's not all bad. Alex and Becca (you know her, she's … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Why Do The Women in the ‘Keep It Real’ Crew Care So Much If We Date Rainbeaus?

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No specific person asked this question; it's more like a conglomeration of people wondering out loud why the cuss the 'Keep it Real' crew cares … [Read more...]

Mr. “Is Marriage for White People?” Himself Talks to BB&W


Rick Banks got a lot of push-back when he was featured in the Wall Street Journal and Essence and he told black women they should do what every other … [Read more...]

Well, Dang!! Interracial Marriages Up 67.5% in Just Three Years! GAT-DL’s Heads Explode Across the Country.

Ladies, grab your passports, cuz he's single!

I have a Spanish friend (a real one, from Spain) named Iván López. You've probably seen his comments on here from time to time. But when it's day … [Read more...]

The Aftermath of Dr. Ralph: Piddly Comebacks and Unwarranted Outrage!

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I've been avoiding this discussion for the last week mainly because was on deadline for the book and Simon & Schuster was threatening to take The … [Read more...]

Say Whaaaa?! September Issue of “Essence” Has Special Feature on Swirling?


Well, well, well. Take a look at the bottom right of the cover of the September issue. Perhaps Michael Bullerdick has jumped right in in the … [Read more...]

Chapter Snippet: The Personal IS NOT the Political

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Three. more. days. Three days, and The Book That Won't Die will finally have to give up the ghost. I'm working on a chapter that basically gives … [Read more...]

You’ve Seen It First Here! Enuka’s Wedding Photo!

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Last week we saw the cute engagement pictures of Enuka and her new hubster, Joe. As promised, here's the Rookie Blue actress in all her martrimonial … [Read more...]