Best Response EVER to the “Marriage is Just a Piece of Paper” Comment…


  We've got the smartest commenters EVER. MixedUpinVegas gave the money response to a young lady said that "marriage was a piece of paper," on … [Read more...]

Our Sh*t Is Beginning to Stink: Bill O’Reilly Addresses Out-of-Wedlock Rate, Get Ready for More


The Black blogospere is up in arms again because someone outside of the "black collective" has the nerve to comment on our abysmal 80% out-of-wedlock … [Read more...]

Iyanla Vanzant: “There is no reason to continue to have children with men who don’t honor us.”


AND THE CHURCH SAID....AMEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNNTTTTT! It looks like Iyanla Vanzant is a fan of No Wedding No Womb. There's just so much truth in what … [Read more...]

“Father Hunger” The Cause of Many Womens’ Relationship Woes


‘Father Hunger’: How His Absence Affects His Daughters Tips for Breaking the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships for Women by Dee Louis-Scott In … [Read more...]

Fathers Are Miracles Workers…

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Since my father died four years ago, Father's Day has always been a bit melancholy for me. No longer can I just give him a call and wish him a great … [Read more...]

Premiering Tonight: “I’m Having Their Baby.” Will You Watch?


Most of you know how I feel about the importance of children being raised by two functional and healthy parents, who can provide and protect that … [Read more...]

The Chickens Have Come Home to Roost, and Single Mothers Whine About Being the New ‘Whipping Girls’


My favorite blog posts are often those that practically write themselves. I'll see or observe something in life and the sheer absurity galvanizes me … [Read more...]

Are Single Moms Raising Losers? New Study Indicates that’s the Case.

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Remember that saying about how single parent black women "raise their daughters and love their sons"? Some new research indicates that--despite the … [Read more...]

Time to Own It: My Mea Culpa on No Wedding No Womb 2010

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Ever since I came to the blog scene in 2010, I've adopted a motto that has worked unbelievably well for me. First motto: You don't have to know … [Read more...]

My Take on Mayor Bloomberg’s Anti Teen Pregnancy Initiative

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There's a major public service announcement going around the streets of New York, thanks to Mayor Michael Bloomberg. A slew of billboards are going up … [Read more...]

When Hood Boogers Attack, Black Kids Wish They Were White.


Atlanta is known for being a hub of some of the most successful black people in America. It's chock full of some of the best HBCU's; plus Emory, the … [Read more...]