I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.

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As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are … [Read more...]

Well THAT Explains a Lot: New Study Reveals Fatherlessness Changes a Child’s Brain Structure

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Findings released by the Research Institute of the McGill University Health Center in the journal Cerebral Cortex, have found a link between … [Read more...]

“Legion of Doom Mothers,” Lead Their Children Like Lambs to Slaughter.

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Last week, a power outage in our area left us with no cable television.  It was a little early for my children's bedtime so I popped in a DVD --  … [Read more...]

OOW Children Are No Mistake, But Stop Projecting Your Ego Onto Your Child.

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One of the most difficult discussions when it comes to the OOW rate among black women is acknowledging that it is a problem. Mainly because black … [Read more...]

Newsflash to The Entitled: Pastors Have the Right of Refusal Blessing Out-of-Wedlock Babies

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Fox 2 News Headlines Before I get into the meat of this issue I want to present a scenario to you. Imagine if you will, a couple attending a strict … [Read more...]

Who Owns a Black Woman’s Womb?

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*gets behind a podium* *clears throat*   Blogmistress, moderators, community regulars, lurkers and guests-   The black … [Read more...]

Best Response EVER to the “Marriage is Just a Piece of Paper” Comment…

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  We've got the smartest commenters EVER. MixedUpinVegas gave the money response to a young lady said that "marriage was a piece of paper," on … [Read more...]

Our Sh*t Is Beginning to Stink: Bill O’Reilly Addresses Out-of-Wedlock Rate, Get Ready for More

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The Black blogospere is up in arms again because someone outside of the "black collective" has the nerve to comment on our abysmal 80% out-of-wedlock … [Read more...]

Iyanla Vanzant: “There is no reason to continue to have children with men who don’t honor us.”

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AND THE CHURCH SAID....AMEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNNTTTTT! It looks like Iyanla Vanzant is a fan of No Wedding No Womb. There's just so much truth in what … [Read more...]

“Father Hunger” The Cause of Many Womens’ Relationship Woes

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‘Father Hunger’: How His Absence Affects His Daughters Tips for Breaking the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships for Women by Dee Louis-Scott In … [Read more...]