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QOTW: We’re Still Getting Played. Time to Pr...

Buckle up, ladies. This one is a doozy. Be sure to read the entire letter. Hello, I just discovered your video (about a girl whose boyfriend of 4 year...
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Here’s Why Black Women REALLY Need to Know W...

Sometimes I go to sully myself in the He-Man-Woman-Haters-Crew section of the internet, just to observe the wildlife. While I was there, I noticed an ...
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Reader Response to Girl Who’s Boyfriend Not ...

Gosh, I love it when the men chime in. This is a response by Tiger, a new reader and fan, regarding the post we did last week about the young girl who...
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Do This To Shrink Open Pores In The T-Zone!

There’s two products I’ve been combining lately to shrink open pores around my T-Zone. I hate that I’ve had to use artificial method...
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Pre-Season Prepper: How to Plant Tomatoes NOW in T...

Tomatoes are undoubtedly the most popular home gardening fruit (yes; tomatoes are a fruit). And why wouldn’t it? Tomatoes aren’t just for ...
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QOTW: “My White Boyfriend Doesn’t Want...

Buckle up, family. This one is a doozy. The Letter: now, i have been dating an amazing guy for a little over 4 years now. we’ve had our ups and ...
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I Think Nik West is My New Girl Crush.

I’ve been seeing her all over my Facebook timeline, rocking a bass guitar. Even without any sound, the beauty, confidence and talent of bass gui...
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QOTW: Do Rainbeaus Go For Bald/Short-Haired Women?

Interesting question.     Weigh in on your thoughts on this!...
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Teacher Humiliates Black Girl; Calls Her Dumb; Say...

Thank God for photo, audio and video evidence to how black girls (particularly the dark ones) are treated by the people in their own communities. A G...
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Vintage Swirl: Meet Ed and Wanda, Married in 1969

Dear Christelyn, I have watched several of your videos on ‘you tube’ now, and have come to the conclusion that not only are you very beaut...
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Pretty Spring! Au Naturale Creme Shadows!

When I see gold, teal, and fuchsia, I can’t help but think about the natural beauty that spring gives us. I puzzle that some women are afraid of...
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Why Don’t They Get It?! Dark Women Feel Bad ...

I can’t tell you how puzzling I find it that the very people who mock black women about hating themselves are the reflections of the women hatin...
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Kim Kardashian’s Latest Nude Selfie Explains...

So, yeah. This is trending. It’s the Instgram selfie in which Kim Kardashian bemoans to the entire world that she has nothing to wear. Never min...
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Are Your Hormones Getting You In Trouble at Work?

It’s not a subject we women like to talk about, because the stakes are high in the corporate world–any sign of weakness can stifle or arre...
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