A Nigerian in Paris – Torn between 2 Terrors...

Written by: Zara Chiron, check out her website here. I guess this is what I was getting at when I defined what the term ‘Afropolitan’ mea... READ MORE

Fear and Loathing; Interracial Dating When YouR...

By Mamie Mooney For many women, dreams of love, marriage, and babies are a cluster of ever-whirling hormones, romance novels, and childhood fantasies.... READ MORE

AM/BW: “Never Settle for Secrecy”

By Mamie Mooney I’m a huge fan of interracial dating. I just want to say that before I continue. It is my belief that people are made to love an... READ MORE

The Discipline of Happiness – Being the BEST ver...

        By “Empress NK” “Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln “We cannot ... READ MORE

Leona’s Love Quest  OK, Cupid Tap Me Out: I’...

I know I’ve threatened to quit online dating before, but this time, for realsies, I’m done with it. I’ve tried Plenty of Fish, Match.com, Chemis... READ MORE

Leona’s Love Quest: Taking the Fear out of R...

As some of you have already noticed, my perspective on life and relationships has changed since I went on the Matthew Hussey Retreat. However, taking ... READ MORE

How the ‘Black Church’ Cheated this Wo...

How Being Churchified And Church Going Limited My Dating Pool And Marriage Prospects. By Raina T. Shaw Also known as The Salon Chair “Therapist”. ... READ MORE

Leona’s Love Quest:  The ABC’s of Finding Lo...

By the time you read this it will be just about two months since I returned from Matthew Hussey’s High Value Woman Lifestyle Retreat. I wish I was s... READ MORE

Challenge! Can You Be the BEST Version of You?

EmpressNK here, I said I’d do a series of posts with the underlying theme of “Being the best version of yourself, to your advantage”. In this fi... READ MORE

From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hat...

Greetings BB&W, As a strong supporter of your work and what it stands for, I’d like to say something to all the naysaying black men on this ... READ MORE

Ladies, Time Isn’t Always On Your Side–...

  By “EmpressNK” As I write this I just started reading a manga series where a 60 year old woman wishes to be 17 so she can enjoy her... READ MORE

Leona’s Love Quest: Is Your Attachment Style...

Attached.  I’ve become slightly obsessed with the song “Latch” by Disclosure featuring Sam Smith .  OK, maybe seriously obsessed. I listening ... READ MORE

Opinion: On Defending Danielle Watts

Let me just start by saying I’ll make no attempt to avoid projecting my own values and sensibilities into this piece.  I’ve been thinking a great... READ MORE

Ask a White Guy: Older Men, Younger Women?

by SavageTango I saw an interesting discussion going on in here not too long ago. Well, pretty much every discussion here is interesting but this one ... READ MORE