For Mother’s Day: 8 Ways Black Women Fail Th...

Written by Nicole Let me start by saying that I’m not a mother. I want children, just not yet. If you think my current childless state means I am no...
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Happy Birthday, Baby Sussex!

Written by Nicole J. Happy birthday to Baby Boy Sussex! View this post on Instagram We are pleased to announce that Their Royal Highnesses The Duke an...
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Sephora Product Picks for the Spring 2019 VIB Sal...

Written by Nicole J. It’s that time of year again, when Sephora has their yearly Spring sale! This year, the sale is April 26 to May 6 for VIB Rouge...
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Dress Codes, Faux Outrage, and the Black Woman’s...

Written by Nicole J. Growing up, my mom always told me the only event you wear pajamas to was your bed. She imparted that the only reason PJs should b...
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The Easter Bunny: Defender of Black Women

Written by Nicole J. Another day, another black woman being abused with black men looking on in impotence. From the audio in the clip above, viewed ov...
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Common Anti-Swirling Scare Tactics and Potential R...

Written by Nicole J. Now more than ever, the relationship choices made by black women are pretty much a political statement. But there is no relations...
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Ancestry.com Ad and the Curious Case of Faux Outra...

Written by Nicole J. The controversial Ancestry.com ad featuring a black woman and white man in love in the time of slavery days has been removed and ...
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“If you’re so happy swirling, why do y...

Written by Nicole J. I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even w...
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Dear Black Women: Never Accept Struggle Dates!

Written by Nicole J. In this age of social media, there is no shortage of material to write about. Since I frequently write about the unique experienc...
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Black women still support R. Kelly, and water is w...

Written by Nicole J. News recently broke that the disgraced R. Kelly performed a 28 second long set for $100. I don’t know or care if it was $100 pe...
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Tiffany Haddish and the Subtle Art of Knowing When...

Written by Nicole J. Comedienne Tiffany Haddish recently let it be known that she once got so drunk that she had a whoopsie poopsie on herself in an U...
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Is money worth your dignity? Kevin and Eniko Hart

Written by Nicole J. Terrible comedian and abnormally tall Oompa-Loompa Kevin Hart made headlines again this week, promoting his latest project. He ap...
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Man, those swirlers sure must be miserable!

Written by Nicole J. The narrative commonly believed is that because I didn’t marry a black man and still write about black women’s relationship i...
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Wendy Williams: A Case Study

Written by Nicole J. I haven’t been following this Wendy Williams drama too closely. To be honest, I am not really a fan of hers as she comes off as...
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