How to respond to unwanted male attention

Written by Nicole J. Since the dawn of time, women have received unwanted advances from men. In days of old, the tried and true line “I have a boyfr...
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Bond Actresses. Black Bond Actresses.

Written by Nicole J. Three black women made James Bond related news this month, one for rejecting a role in the decades-long James Bond franchise, ano...
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Dear Black Women: Stay true to your relationship d...

Written by Nicole J. Relationships are hard. Even though the Internet has made the world smaller, it can still be difficult to meet “the one”. If ...
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What tips do you have for a marriage minded 30-som...

I wanted to ask a question about getting back into the dating game after a long hiatus. What’s the best way to start dating again after about a 1 an...
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Black Women, Hair, and Swirling

It’s always the objectively unattractive ones that have something slick to say about black women’s hair. Some nobody I had never heard of until to...
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Pink Pill for College Girls: Beware the Pitfalls o...

With the advent of social media, any random thing that comes to mind or an event best kept under wraps can be broadcasted to millions of people in rea...
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Father Beats Young Daughter for Being Sexually Act...

Written by Nicole J. Another viral video is making its rounds this week, featuring a black male beating his reportedly 12-year-old daughter for having...
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My thoughts on who SHOULD play Prince Eric

Written by Nicole J. Now that Princess Ariel has been cast in the remake of The Little Mermaid, focus now shifts to who will play her prince, Eric. I ...
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Disney Brawl Postscript: How Toxicity Flourishes

Written by Nicole J. Apparently no charges were pressed following the Disney beat down that happened earlier this month, and that is a testament to ho...
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Hot Take: If Prince Eric was black…

Written by Nicole J. The casting choice of Halle Bailey to be in the latest Hollywood remake, The Little Mermaid, has stirred up every social media pl...
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Throwing Hands at Disneyland: A Look at the Latest...

Written by Nicole J. This Disney brawl got me heated so there is cursing in this blog. A family outing at Disney Land devolved into Animal Kingdom whe...
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My Thoughts on the #CucumberChallenge

Written by Nicole J. Another week, another group of black women publicly broadcasting themselves in the basest, poorest, worst of lights. Apparently t...
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Black Women, Forgiveness and Chris Brown

Written by Nicole J. Kelly Rowland recently posted on noted abuser Chris Brown’s Instagram saying “we love you Chris” following the latest furor...
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Chris Brown and the Black Women Who Support Him

Written by Nicole j. Let’s start with a story. Not too long ago, my husband found himself on his personal Instagram account that lay unused for many...
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