Of Gold-Diggers, Womb-Guardians, And Why Black Wom...

If you never in your life want to hear a black woman either go off about why “she don’t need a man” or why it’s perfectly reas...
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“You Must Hate Them All!” ActuallyR...

I have a confession: Unless someone has done something absolutely terrible or is consistent in their questionable behavior, I have a tendency to forge...
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Just Move On: Why Validation-Seeking In Black Wome...

I’ve become aware of recent kerfuffles where someone said/did something that could be construed as giving a negative impression of black women (...
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A Lesson In Bold Black Womanhood: No Explanations ...

I’ve talked in the past about being a bold black woman. One of the areas where black women often find themselves attacked is in their ability to...
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Who Owns a Black Woman’s Womb?

Despite the fact that a lack of being married is usually the result of a man not asking, it has been typically expected that the black women bear sole...
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Go East, Young Woman: Coping With Pre-Travel Abroa...

As some of you may know, I've been wanting to go abroad for a couple of years now. I only started actively planning within the past few months. Though...
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“#SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen” And That&...

I actually tried to pass the buck on this one. However, finding out my previous article had been syndicated during the aftermath of the #SolidarityIsF...
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DUPLICATE POST with fresh comment thread ~ com...

I'm gonna go ahead and ask....what's the worst thing about being the rare flower in the garden?...
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ORIGINAL POST with restored comment thread ~ B...

I'm gonna go ahead and ask....what's the worst thing about being the rare flower in the garden?...
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Why Do Some Black Women Consider Marriage “T...

I wrote the first part in response to the negative attitudes I'd seen from single black women regarding marriage. Specifically people who have never b...
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A “Twisted” Commentary On Black Women ...

I confess, as someone who doesn't watch ABC Family (the programming is a bit "young" for me much of the time), the show "Twisted" was not on my radar....
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Black Women: How BOLD Are You? Steps to S...

Something I've been working on is my level of mental and emotional boldness. I don't mean being brash or careless, but bold. To be bold and be a black...
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Why Do Some Black Women Consider Marriage “T...

Ever wonder why these women get so mad? It's because the topic of black women in loving relationships where they are married and thriving is like a do...
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All’s Fair In Love And War: Swirl Edition, I...

Have you experienced or observed black women trying to sabotage other women considering interracial dating?...
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