Ciara is Getting Hitched, And Some People A Little...

Hello, strangers! I haven’t written anything for this blog in awhile, I know. Much of my time is being consumed by sorting things out in my pers... READ MORE

Toni: Black Women Losing in the ‘Fairness Ga...

Yep, it’s Toni! You know something is important when I decide to break my “I’m too busy to write or BBW” to write something for BB... READ MORE

Dear Black Men, Did I Hurt Your Feelings? You Don&...

Warning: This is a LENGTHY read, so you may want to go get a snack or something to eat while you read this.  I was in the middle of writing follow-up... READ MORE

Want To Know What Black Men REALLY Think Of Black ...

So many people were following the recent post about Amber Rose and the Kardashians that we were gifted some great (and not so great) feedback. Many me... READ MORE

Anti-Swirling Black Women And You: Why Their Loudn...

I was moved to write this post by BBW community member Vivaforever, who expressed her concerns over the ugly hatred that is spread toward black women ... READ MORE

My Strong Is Not Your Strong, My Swirl Is...

I would like to reiterate a few things before I get started. They are things that are obvious to full-time participants in this lovely community, but ... READ MORE

Wake Up, Black Women! IRR “Permission”...

  By Toni First of all, HEEEEY! I have been gone for awhile, I know. I wish I could write more of these articles, but I have been super busy. Som... READ MORE

New Anti-Swirling Meme: “How Can You Oppose ...

I’ve been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip blac... READ MORE

Black Women Who Seek To Eliminate Themselves ̶...

I feel a mixture of compassion and frustration with black women who are determined to degrade themselves in the pursuit of seeking validation from po... READ MORE

White Feminist Pretending To Be “Concerned&#...

UPDATE!!!!!!! It is all a hoax ladies and gentleman the source article is a Hoax. “Anne Gus” is really a guy who was outed after posting a... READ MORE

Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working”...

I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK mot... READ MORE

You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind R...

In my previous article on the whole “gold digger” meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the wo... READ MORE

Know What ‘Empowerment’ Really Means? ...

I made a few resolutions for this year. For example, I would try to be less confrontational and not expend energy in pointless arguments. Another reso... READ MORE

Toni: Desirable educated black women who don’...

I find it absolutely hilarious that we get black woman after black woman writing all these open letters and blog posts about how they only want a blac... READ MORE