Kevin on Being Socially “Anti-Social”

I can keep up with people, catch up with people, anonymously stalk people, all from the comfort of my home, where all the traditional accoutrements of... READ MORE

Guest of the Inner Sanctum: Zabeth says, “Ge...

Our beloved Zabeth breaks down dating do's and don'ts so FOR LOVE OF OF ALL THINGS WHOLLY listen!... READ MORE

Guest of the Inner Sanctum: American Black Chick i...

"I grew up in Atlanta, aka Hotlanta, aka the black gay (male) Mecca, aka the WORST place for black women to date interracially. And that last one? Kin... READ MORE

Guest of the Inner Sanctum: Tanisha Everett, ̶...

"I have never had much luck in romantic relationships. I tend to pack up and leave whatever city or country I am in whenever the mood hits or the oppo... READ MORE

Back Again By Popular Demand: Kevin on Divorce and...

... amicable… well, it helps that I’m not exactly sure what it means. I’ve got it narrowed down to a general sense of cooperation ... READ MORE

Madame Noire’s LaShaun Williams Poses a Pric...

Interracial, or rain-beau as it is affectionately called on this site, dating can be a complicated feat in its own—culture clashes, stranger st... READ MORE

“It’s All Part of My Rock and Roll Fa...

We BB&W tenderfoots can learn A LOT from Brenda Brody, 60, who is a veteran of the swirling and rain-beau love. In fact! She was...gasp...a groupie! I... READ MORE

He’s BAAACK: Newly Single Kevin Purcell Tal...

Who doesn’t like a nice picture of an expertly taxidermied roadkill armadillo? But for the most part, people are so terrified of actually prese... READ MORE

Ms. Cocoa Fly (aka Jenee Darden): Don’t Assu...

"I bat my eyes when I see a cute guy and sometimes walk with a switch. AND, AND, AND I went to charm school. That's right baby! I know which fork to u... READ MORE

The Winner of the “Black & (A)broadR...

No cheating. You'll have to ACTUALLY open the post. ... READ MORE

Friday Funny: Dance Off that Flabbage.

You ate too much and you know it. Here's what you might do so as to not start looking into anorexia/bulimia websites because, that's just bad news. ... READ MORE

Tommorow’s Thanksgiving: Do You Know Where Y...

Quick trivia! What's a Beaujolais nouveau? Is it a seasonal wine, or does it mean "newly bougie?"... READ MORE

Sophia A. Nelson: Black Women and the “F-wor...

"Black Woman Redefined" author, Sophia Angeli Nelson talks about why we are often described as the offspring of a donkey and a horse, and what we can ... READ MORE

As Promised! Book Excerpt: One Love Two Colours

"Colours." Those Brits are so fancy, aren't they? Skip the Lifetime Movie and take a read. Every flick is SO formulaic. You KNOW she/he gets it in th... READ MORE