Relationships

Man, those swirlers sure must be miserable!

Written by Nicole J. The narrative commonly believed is that because I didn’t marry a black man and still write about black women’s relationship i...
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Wendy Williams: A Case Study

Written by Nicole J. I haven’t been following this Wendy Williams drama too closely. To be honest, I am not really a fan of hers as she comes off as...
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The OLDER Woman’s Advantage in Interracial D...

When other women are feeling “washed up,” black women are just getting started–especially if they know how to play the interracial d...
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Video: How to Catch a Whale ? at Work

Did You Know I Caught a Once Caught a WHALE? (I threw him back though.) Let’s face it. The average person spends a lot of time at work. With all...
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If you’re a black woman against swirling, yo...

Written by Nicole J. Here’s an unpopular opinion for you: in 2019, if you’re a black woman and against swirling, you are stupid. Okay, stupid is h...
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“At least I have a man!” is not a clap...

Written by Nicole J. Imagine with me, if you will. You are single, happy, and doing your thing. You might be in school, working on your degree. Or, yo...
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St. Paddy’s Day Special – Where to mee...

Written by Nicole J. Aidan Turner, Robert Sheehan, Cillian Murphy, Michael Fassbender, (Northern Irish) Jamie Dornan…Irish men are definitely so...
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Lessons to learn from Tamron Hall’s Baby Ann...

Written by Nicole J. There are many benefits in waiting to start a family. Finances are more likely to be in order. Debts are likely to be significant...
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Tamron Hall Is a Stealthy Swirler of the Highest D...

Tamron Hall can keep a hell of a secret. In one fell swoop, she announced that she is eight months pregnant at age 48, and is interracially married. O...
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You Won’t Believe What White Men are Saying ...

Check out this video and see why more and more non-black men are finding love with black women....
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BB&W Interview spotlight: Morshe and James

Morshe and James have graciously taken time to interview with me, all the way from the beautiful state of Hawaii. I hope you enjoy hearing their story...
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No More “Mr. Wrong” for Mary J. Blige

Written by Nicole J. Legendary singer Mary J. Blige has recently taken on a “No Kendu” attitude (get it?!) when it comes to dating men who make le...
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Thirty Years of Love and Family in Canada…An Int...

Beyond Black and White Interview Spotlight: Jasmine and Lorne This is an interview with Jasmine, who shares about her 30 year interracial marriage in ...
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Where to Meet Men in Uniform

Written by Nicole J. Valentine’s Day is over, and if you’ve found yourself without an arrow from that baby cherub, why not shoot your shot on your...
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