Video Interview: Jordan Harbinger On the Dating an...

Do you know when a guy's hitting on you? How many signals have you missed, chica? ... READ MORE

Breaking News! Halle Berry Engaged…Again!!

I know this sounds cynical, but I wouldn't be surprised that this relationship crashes and burns too like her unions with Eric and David. ... READ MORE

Attention, Lurkers! Open Mic Question of the Week!...

Okay lurkers, here's your chance to get your swirling relationship advice for a slew of folks from the BB&W Crew, plus some rainbeau dudes thrown in f... READ MORE

For Colored Girls, Who Look in the Mirror and Thin...

Beauty doesn’t live in the mirror of many black women, and contrary to what you may think, this is not a “complexion issue” because... READ MORE

Me and You against the World: How Chibi and David ...

David and Chibi met through BB&W and the Facebook group, Asian Men, Black Women United. David, who is Hmong, and Chibi, a black woman, have faced trem... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Is This All in My Hea...

This BB&W fan wants input from the sages, so I'm going to let you all have at it!... READ MORE

Goddess of the Week: The Lovely Lakeisha!

Meet the lovely Southern belle, Lakeisha Moore.... READ MORE

Love & Marriage Overseas: Three Kids Later, H...

Yet ANOTHER reason not to give up on finding love online...... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Help 25-Year-Old Rain...

"After hanging out a few times, things got pretty hot and heavy but I made sure to tell him I wanted things to go slow but I don't think he's gotten ... READ MORE

Millicent Hunter Reports From the Trenches: What I...

Since it’s initiation, I HEART Black Girls has had a number of events and on January 15th they are scheduled to have a Q & A with Karyn Folan, ... READ MORE

Question of the Week: White Guy Asks, “How C...

So as a WM fairly new to IRR (even though I have had interest in this direction for quite awhile), I have to admit that I never really was very sure h... READ MORE

Silver Swirling: Why My Mother Won’t Ever Do...

Single, widowed, and lonely, but too scared to swirl?... READ MORE

By Dr. Phoenyx Austin: It’s Easier to Find ...

I’m taking a break from my usually schedule hair posts to write a bit about love and culture. Yeah, I like to touch on the relationship stuff t... READ MORE

Question of the Week: Why Am I Invisible To Rainbe...

Hello Cris. I'm enjoying your blog. I'm a little bit discouraged because I have a crush on this guy. We were out last night with som... READ MORE