Gems from the Comments

“Ericatheoddity” Speaks:”Christe...

I’ve been having my eye on this young woman for a while now, and her commentary is epic. She is so smart, and totally gets it. Yesterday she mad...
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Time to Dispel “Black Women at the Bottom of...

Copying and pasting this GEM  from the THREAD word for word.  OK ladies and gentlemen of the BB&W community. Suit up and have at it. onmywayup4 ...
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Reader Letter: Black Woman Married to a Black Man ...

I love it when people finally “get” it. The letter… I pop in on your site from time to time and my feelings about what you are tryin...
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SavageTango tells all: Getting his attention

SavageTango Let me say right off I’ve been down this road on numerous occasions. I’m no stranger to the issues you’ve raised and und...
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Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Commen...

A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it’s own post.  Friends...
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Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”...

  Dear “Nothing But A Brother” and “I Don’t Date White Guys” black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season a...
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Troll Crushing 101: Comment Gems from the BB&...

We've got the smartest audience around!...
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What Happens When Family Refuses Kumbya: One Reade...

Some of the best content on this site is not always found among the articles but among the comments that we receive from readers like you. Many of you...
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“After I Met Your Mother”: Rainbeaus, ...

You have lurked long enough now. Any rainbeaus with dating, courting, marrying, or family creation stories, time to spill it. We know you got 'em. The...
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What Black Men Say When Black Women Aren’t A...

What do men talk about when women aren't around? Is the conversation different based on the races, ages and culture of the men? Tracy has the inside s...
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Sapphire On a Side Note: Patriarchy, Purity and th...

Tracy drops the knowledge......
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Claiming vs. Exclusion Part 2: Discrimination in I...

Are we all on the same team?...
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Question of the Week: Why Aren’t Black Folks...

Why can whites, Asians, and Hispanics be classist and separate themselves from their ethnic riff raff, and if black folks do it, their called "sell ou...
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Ralph Richard Banks Joins the Commenters at Beyond...

"... I have been struck by how vehemently some black men oppose black women’s efforts to expand their options to include men of other races. .....
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