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EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 11 –...

Now that I am becoming SO experienced in relationship matters (quit rolling your eyes, that was said “tongue-in-cheek”)…. I want to share my ru...
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Time for Another Off-Topic Thread!

Wait until the new site is up and our forum gets popping. You guys won't know what to do with yourselves....
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How Can Black Women Thrive in a Racist Society?

I read some articles over the weekend that left me shocked, angry, and speechless. The first was about a high school principal accused of racist verba...
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“Swirling” Sizzle Reel…Can You F...

Take a look at the footage from my Brooklyn event. Guess who I'm kissing toward the end? HINT: Her name starts with a "B" and ends with "55." Thought ...
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What Happens When Family Refuses Kumbya: One Reade...

Some of the best content on this site is not always found among the articles but among the comments that we receive from readers like you. Many of you...
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Newtons: The Fruit Cookie My Kids Eat Nuts and Ber...

What can I say? They like what they like......
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Los Angeles Meet and Greet: Getrude Matshe and Dr...

Attention Los Angeles BB&W folks!...
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Accepting Black Women Just As They Are

July 19, 2013   Dearest Black Community,   Darlings, I have been thinking about the way that I view Black women and Black people in general ...
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This is one of the Reasons So Many White Guys Thin...

I get so exhausted of these shout-in-from-the-rooftop black women who use media platforms to announce they would rather give a cat a blow job than to ...
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“After I Met Your Mother”: Rainbeaus, ...

You have lurked long enough now. Any rainbeaus with dating, courting, marrying, or family creation stories, time to spill it. We know you got 'em. The...
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Getting Familiar with His Familia: Meeting His Fam...

The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and ...
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Skepticism about Mentoring

I just read a comment on a blog that basically said, if these middle-class educated people have such a problem with underclass Black people people, th...
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Stop Blaming Dead White Men for Slavery! Saudis Ar...

You know what I hate more than any other lame-ass reason why black women shouldn't swirl? "You're bedding the slave master." As if whites were the ONL...
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