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Abiola Abrams and Mollena Williams Address Now-Inf...

A boatload of you asked me to address the letter published in Essence.com from a black woman who alleged that her white husband called her racial slur...
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A Preppy Chic Farewell to Lilly Pulitzer

Lilly Pulitzer, wife of Peter Pulitzer grandson of the famous publisher Joseph Pulitzer of the Pulitzer Prize fame, was the fashion designer best know...
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Today’s the Day! Matthew Hussey’s R...

A book and a show, all in the same day......
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Swirling Women History Makers Vice Admiral Michell...

In honor of Women's History Month, I wanted to profile a special swirling black woman. I could not think of a more fitting role model, outstanding le...
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The Five Stages of Black Woman Grief, Part 2: Barg...

Toni continues the series......
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And Again…Fresh Off-Topic Thread!!

By immediate demand, here is your fresh OT thread... By the way, I'm working on building a forum/message board on the blog so that you all can cong...
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Weekend Read: Excerpts of Matthew Hussey’s U...

Just a few more days......
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Friday Funny: Are You ‘Qualified’ To D...

This questionnaire comes courtesy of our own adorable CAPT SMOOTH......
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On Vetting: Could You Be Deceived?

I know that I installed the word "VET" into my vocabulary as I found myself coaching more and more women on finding suitable mates. What if someone d...
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Why Does My Autistic Son Have To Register For Sele...

April 2 was World Autism Awareness Day. I have been one re-tweeting fool over the last couple of days doing my part to get the word out. But when I ...
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It’s the LaLaLa From Halsted……..

Lit in the afternoon......
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Yet Another Liberal Horse-Poo Article Confirming t...

Well the GAT-DL are at it again with their embracing of black boys as the precious and then throwing the responsibility to mammy and mule to young bla...
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Sometimes the Words Don’t Fit in My Mouth...

Sometimes the words don't fit in my mouth, and so I throw them at people instead. But I've recently had to ask myself, 'Why fucking bother....?"...
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Friday Funny: Swirl In the Animal World!!

We needed to lighten up the mood so I thought I would present some swirls in the animal world. It seems that animals are getting along better than hu...
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