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“After I Met Your Mother”: Rainbeaus, ...

You have lurked long enough now. Any rainbeaus with dating, courting, marrying, or family creation stories, time to spill it. We know you got 'em. The...
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Getting Familiar with His Familia: Meeting His Fam...

The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and ...
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Skepticism about Mentoring

I just read a comment on a blog that basically said, if these middle-class educated people have such a problem with underclass Black people people, th...
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Stop Blaming Dead White Men for Slavery! Saudis Ar...

You know what I hate more than any other lame-ass reason why black women shouldn't swirl? "You're bedding the slave master." As if whites were the ONL...
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Rae Dawn Chong’s Comments About Oprah Exempl...

Thanks to my many BB&W look-outs, I came across some pretty vile comments said by Rae Dawn Chong about Oprah Winfrey. It's pretty shocking. ...
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Social Graces 101: Respectfulness in Conversation

Do you know how to talk the talk?...
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This is Forty…

Today is my birthday, and there's a lot of 7's in it. Seventh month, seventeenth day, born the year 1973, at 7:03 in the morning. I suppose all those ...
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Do You Feel The Need to Distance Yourself from Oth...

Several times I have seen black women write that black women need to act to distance themselves from other black women. But why would I need to distan...
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Question of the Week: Swirling and Racially Charge...

How do you and your honey handle discussions of racially-charged subject in which you find yourselves on opposite ends? ...
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Video: (most) Black Women Aren’t Sex-Starved...

This note and subsequent video speaks to all the mouth-breathing miscreants who think black women are all sex-crazed thirsties looking for crumbs....
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Friday Funny: Do Black Women Have a B*tchy Resting...

My BB&W opertatives came upon this video and shared it with me, and while it's funny, there's whole lot of truth to it. While the white chicks in this...
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Chinese Flair Egg Drop Soup and Spare Ribs

Original recipe egg drop soup makes 1 quart of soup. Egg drop soup literally "egg flower soup") is a Chinese soup of wispy beaten eggs in boiled chic...
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You Decide: What Kind of Black Woman Are You?

WARNING: If you do not believe in ideals or striving to be better, please do not read this post or comment. If you had issues with my last post I wou...
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