Swirling, the Book

It’s Loving Day!

The Lovings walked their "100 miles in the snow" uphill, with no jacket and flip flops so you wouldn't have to. ...
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Smile, Black Women, SMIIIIIIILE!!!

Sorry ladies. Brooding only works for guys....
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Foxy Black Chick Arielle Loren Packs it Up to Braz...

Arielle packs it in and is pursuing her dreams in Brazil. Find out how she's getting it done....
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Janice Rhoshalle Is More Than a Pretty Face and My...

Check out the other hat my writing partner wears....
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Has Your Rainbeau Man Taken Some Dings for You?

Is 'dating while black' risky for rainbeaus?...
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Relationships Doc Says “Betas” are ...

When it comes to long-lasting happiness, this relationships doc shows you the way....
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Quit-cha Job; Do the Couple Hustle!

Check out this power couple I discovered. Ebony + Ivory = GREEN....
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Author Spotlight: The Notorious Kola Boof Talks BW...

You all know her. But if you don't, you should try digging yourself from under that rock once in a while. ...
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What the Cuss? Race Mixing in Mississippi!?

Swirler growth in the deep, dirty South is exploding. Who'd a thunk it? (photo credit: Nicole Bengiveno/The New York Times)...
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BB&W Exclusive: Meet Ming, International (and...

She just might be your saving grace in an interracial dating wasteland....
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Three Strategies to Deal with Oglers When You̵...

Key ways to manage unwanted stares so you can keep up your rainbeau dating game...
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Guest of the Inner Sanctum: American Black Chick i...

"I grew up in Atlanta, aka Hotlanta, aka the black gay (male) Mecca, aka the WORST place for black women to date interracially. And that last one? Kin...
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Question of the Week: “I’m almost 30; ...

I just HAD to post this question in it's entirety--it's a bit long, but I don't care! SHE is why I write this blog everyday. SHE is why I'm writing ...
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Ever Lost a Friend Because of Your Rainbeau?

Some "friends" are funny. Funny, because they REALLY like you when you're miserable, lonely, gained weight, pregnant by Ray Ray or Tyrone, on AFDC, fl...
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