No Wedding, No Womb!

The Emerging Elite: Parenting Disparity Grows as S...

Are hovering parents who control every part of their children’s schedule creating more successful adults when compared to the “free range&...
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Maxi (Temporarily) Makes Me a Grandmother!!

‘Maxi’ recently had to take home a robot baby that cries, needs a bottle, needs to be burped, and cries some more. Take a look at how she ...
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Moynihan’s Lost Report Notes on Black OOW Pr...

Sigh. Widely criticized (and undoubtedly correct) Daniel Patrick Moynihan, who created a vastly controversial report that suggested that blacks would...
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An Honest Look at Black Single Mothers and the Lin...

A fan of BB&W sent me a link today to a very powerful piece about how some black single mothers raise their sons, and how the methods of harsh and...
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Hey Single Black Moms, “White Women Raise Be...

Le sigh. I just don’t know where to go with this, but just to once again remind you to get the phuck out of the dysfunctional sections of the bl...
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BB&W Survey Results: 69% of IRR Black Mothers...

Yesterday on a whim, I decided to host an informal survey of the participants of this blog and our Facebook page–black women interested and invo...
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Why Bristol Palin Won’t Ever Be Called a ...

I’ve watched with interest as news outlets all over the world are reporting the second illegitimate pregnancy of Bristol Palin, daughter of once...
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Breaking Point? What’s Up with All These Sto...

I woke up to yet another story of a black woman who brutally killed her child in a restaurant bathroom. She’s 35, most likely a single mother. F...
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Dear Black Men, Did I Hurt Your Feelings? You Don&...

Warning: This is a LENGTHY read, so you may want to go get a snack or something to eat while you read this.  I was in the middle of writing follow-up...
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Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out...

I got this note from a BB&W fan, who happens to be biracial (his mother is black, father is white). Richard often comes to the fan page to discuss...
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‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bu...

A fan just shared this with me…it’s unbelievable. But read closely and you’ll see that these events don’t happen in a bubble. ...
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Video: Single Parenthood from the Child’s Pe...

I remember back in 2010 when No Wedding No Womb first entered the foray, and everybody and their single mothers were railing against the mere acknowle...
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I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks...

I’m reeling because I just ended a relationship with a person whom I have respected for years, and whom I thought was an ally on behalf of No We...
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The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST...

During my 72-hour Facebook exile, several people posted a letter on my wall from the eldest child of the man featured on Iyanla, Fix My Life who boas...
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