Thriving

Four Things I’ve Learned Being Friends with ...

When I was a child growing up in the 80’s in the ill-begotten Southern California high desert, I was surrounded by white girls. At 9 years old, ...
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Pink Pill Strategies that Worked for Michelle Obam...

I am in the throes of reading michelle (with a deliberate lower case on the “m”) by author Liza Mundy. How Michelle Obama’s story i...
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Pink Pill Featured on Hot 103 Jamz!

Woo hoo I loved speaking with Julee Jonez! Here’s what she wrote on her blog: When I first read the title of an email that read, “Do black wom...
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Four Reasons You Might Be Attracting Losers

I hear it all the time…women come to me so frustrated that they keep attracting the same kinds of men. Their relationships start with a hopeful ...
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Special Guest “JetSetBabe” Only In Our...

Ever wonder if you could actually LIVE amongst the rich and famous? Do you look with envy at the Instagram models posting photos from exotic locales l...
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The (mis)Education of Azealia Banks

Yesterday Azealia Banks released another single. According to Billboard, the house-inspired “Movin’ On Up,” speaks for Azealia, des...
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When You Don’t Fit Into the “Black Gir...

We’re having some seriously amazing discussions in our Pink Pill secret Facebook group. And while we’re sworn to silence by pain of a laws...
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Marriage Isn’t for Black Women…REALLY?...

A few days ago I had the misfortune of running across a woe-is-me article called Marriage Isn’t for Black Women, published in Marie Claire of al...
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Racial Bias at Workplace Can Cost Black Women̵...

Catalyst, a group that helps women in the workplace, released a new report siting that the majority of women of color experience an “emotional t...
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What to Do When a White Woman Calls You the N-Word

Yesterday I reported on my YouTube channel an event in which a white woman, ostensibly enraged over a parking dispute, revealed her true feelings abou...
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Pink Pill: They Really Don’t Want Black Wome...

We have entire cottage industries on YouTube and various blogs dedicated to telling the world about what’s wrong with black women. Hoards of men...
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Black Media are Instruments to Perpetuate Dysfunct...

In 2010, I committed an unforgivable act in the black media sphere–I started No Wedding No Womb, an online blog campaign that went viral overnig...
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Pink Pill: Ladies Leveling Up Only!

For the past three months, I have been buried in a project that just may be the most important thing I’ve ever done since starting this platform...
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Matthew Knowles Blames His Mother for His Colorism...

In an article that initially appeared in Ebony but then mysteriously disappeared that Madame Noire reported Matthew Knowles, patriarch of Beyonce and...
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