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DISGUSTING Representation of White Woman Worship

I’m completely speechless over this photograph and the awful symbolism of the perceived white woman’s beauty supremacy. After hundreds of ...
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Why Are So Many Black Women Hostile About Ciara?

Ciara has been catching a lot of heat over a little tweet that has a lot of black women upset. #LevelUp. Don’t Settle. A post shared by Ciara (@ciar...
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This Bit of History Will Make You Question Why You...

Ever wonder why slave women wore headwraps? I was told once that it was because their hair was so offensive to the sensitivities to polite, white soci...
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And Here They Come…White Women Are Starting ...

I received a letter from a fan today… PLEASE consider posting both of these pieces because they both relate to many of the issues you’ve alrea...
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Black Women: Victims of the Biggest Hustle in Huma...

Recently I met a phenomenal woman named Portia. She wrote a Facebook post that moved me, and I simply had to know more about her. I would soon find ou...
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QOTW: Addressing Black Women’s Insecurities ...

I received this letter from a white man who has dated interracially for decades. He’s noticed something unfortunate with the women he’s da...
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Do You Deal with Guilt About Leaving the ‘Bl...

It’s been a long time since my black card was withdrawn, and honestly I mostly could care less. But because of the work I do, I have to have som...
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Jessica Chastain Highlights What’s Wrong wit...

Actress Jessica Chastain is on a mission to let you know that she isn’t too happy with how women are being portrayed in movies. And when she say...
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Jamele Hill and How Black Women Police and Shame O...

Let me first open by saying that I am no fan of Stacy Dash. Frankly, she confuses me. She seems a bit…”off.” But I have to jump in t...
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Time To Really Get Honest About Our Weight. #PinkP...

I remember back in 2010, I wrote my first post about black women, their weight, and their dating options. I didn’t hold back–I was brutall...
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What Happens When Black Women Take the ‘Pink...

In case you missed this… https://youtu.be/Exvzxu47m4s...
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Serena Williams vs. Jennifer Hudson: Who Did It Be...

I know what some of you are thinking, and you’re wrong. Serena Williams just had a lavish wedding to Reddit co-founder, Alex Ohanian, with their...
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Carrie Speaks: Are black women less forgiving of b...

By Carrie *Stop reading right now if the ‘arrogance’ of me being true to myself offends, I repeat. Stop reading. If this is a popularity contest, ...
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Why Some Black Women Don’t Understand ‘...

I know this post title is going to upset some people, but know that what I’m discussing is not about race. It’s about culture. And as a mo...
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