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Good Wins Again! My Final Word on Internet Trolls&...

      This weekend was FABULOUS, much to the chagrin of a rabid internet troll who inadvertently made our BB&W fan page legend. Bec...
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Kola Boof: “I Never Loved Osama Bin Laden”

Never to be outdone and never soft-spoken, the illustrious for some, the infamous for others, Kola Boof....
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Reality TV Star Evelyn Lozada on Why She Married a...

Now I know that many of the BB&W regulars HATE reality TV shows featuring black women who aren't afraid to turn on the ratchet--namely, shows like VH1...
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Black Women Suspicious When Desired yet Begging to...

Black Women Suspicious When Someone Desires Them I just read this post on Clutch about a new dating site called I Love Black Women.  According to Clu...
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Who Owns a Black Woman’s Womb?

Despite the fact that a lack of being married is usually the result of a man not asking, it has been typically expected that the black women bear sole...
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Study Confirms that No Matter What I Do, Haters Wi...

I have a few trusted advisers in my inner circle who semi-regularly have to talk me off the ledge, because I have a small but vocal cadre of haters wi...
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Miley Cyrus Isn’t the Only Dingbat Co-Opting...

Yes, as a white girl who is a protected species, she has the ability to pick and choose what part of "black culture" she wants, a la carte. And when s...
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Why I am considering moving to New Zealand

"I will be blunt, one of the main reasons I am considering this radical relocation is I WANT TO GET MARRIED!!!!"...
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How Can We Avoid Mr. Wrong???

Did you hear about the Florida man who killed his wife and posted a picture of her body on Facebook? He even left their 10-year-old daughter in the ho...
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“#SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen” And That&...

I actually tried to pass the buck on this one. However, finding out my previous article had been syndicated during the aftermath of the #SolidarityIsF...
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#SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen Hashtag Cracks the Fiss...

But the real questions are these:Why was Hugo allowed to masquerade as a liberal feminist dude for so long in feminist and progressive spaces? Why did...
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Best Response EVER to the “Marriage is Just ...

We've got the smartest commenters EVER. MixUpinVegas gave the money response to a young lady said that "marriage was a piece of paper," on this post a...
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A Loving Father’s Advice for Black Women See...

So many of us in the BC haven't had the benefit of the guidance of a loving father, so I KNOW this is needed. ...
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How To Be A Strong Black Woman: Follow Oprah’...

Everyone and their mother has heard about Oprah's brush with racism in Zurich. In case you haven't, let me give you the scoop. Oprah visited an upscal...
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