Let’s Talk About ‘Shaming’ Poor,...

Let's explore how "Pampers" have a much deeper meaning in the black community.... READ MORE

Murder the Messenger–The GAT-DL Blacklash of...

...Here come the trolls....... READ MORE

Etiquette 101: 9 Tips for a more polished appearan...

I have learned by experience that because people are always watching you and making internal judgments, it is wise to be aware of your outward present... READ MORE

A Necessary Understanding: Strength Is NOT Rationa...

I don't like repeating myself if I don't have to, but in some things, repetition becomes absolutely necessary.... READ MORE

Check Us Out in the Chicago Tribune!

This is a cool story that gives the good and not-so-great news about the state of interracial relationships in the United States. You'll even get a ra... READ MORE

Time to Address All this “Men Are Men”...

Several of you ladies have sent me links to a few trending stories about how "mystified" some black women bloggers are about all the "hoopla" surround... READ MORE

Why do Low-Income Couples Marry Less and Divorce M...

This news release came in my inbox this morning, and I though it was significant enough to share it here in it's entirety. What I find ironic is decad... READ MORE

Opinion: “You think you BETTER than us?̶...

"What is this love affair that many black women have with dysfunction and misery? So dedicated to this non-sense that they will not only do anything t... READ MORE

Ladies, Never Apologize for Wanting More!

It truly hurts my heart that so many black women have been beaten down, so much to the point that they don't even think that deserve even the most bas... READ MORE

Black Women: Yes, You Are Liked….Yes, You Ar...

If there are men of other ethnic groups you are attracted to, understand that just as you are not a monolithic black woman they are not monolithic eit... READ MORE

Etiquette 101: Tech Manners

Rules to text by...... READ MORE

Second Memo: BWE/IRR-blog sites are STILL NOT your...

Toni's telling it like it t-i-is!... READ MORE

A Response to “Do You Want to Date a White G...

What is it with this hair stuff?!... READ MORE

Jamila: Black People Do Have a Different Cultural ...

"Yeah, it takes a "village" unfortunately there won't be a village in about three generations, why? because three generations of Black children won't ... READ MORE