Wendy Ida: Most Definitely a New, NEW Black Woman!

Check out this amazing woman. I want to be her when I grow up. This woman is 60. As in, 10 years over half a century.... READ MORE

A Peculiar Situation: One Black Woman’s Comp...

"I don’t hate white women. I don’t like the way they are lauded over and the sense of entitlement that some of them have. I know that I am just as... READ MORE

Etiquette 101: Graciousness in Competition (and li...

This post is in response to the overwhelming feedback to my previous post in regards to graciousness in competition. The objective was not to project... READ MORE

Beware the Terriorism of ‘Blackistan!’

Yes; 'Blackistan' is a real place. It's in just about every city in the U.S.... READ MORE

VintageNarcissa: Not All Progressive Black Women a...

One thing I really enjoy about Beyond Black and White is that it’s a safe space for black women who do not fit the norm. As we've witnessed in recen... READ MORE

Dr. Boyce Watkins Thinks Welfare of Girlfriend-Bea...

True to your name, Tony Farmer, you just got a crash course in sowing and reaping.... READ MORE

The Housing Market is Rebounding. So What’s ...

A BB&W woman maximizes her opportunities in all aspects of her life--even and especially the financial.... READ MORE

Black Women Have to Express Themselves So That The...

Can black women ever win when it comes to expressing their emotions?... READ MORE

GAT-DL Okey-Doke: Black Women “Breeding Out ...

When I see something mentioned repeatedly within a short period of time at different locations, it’s not within me to see it as merely a coincid... READ MORE

Have You Noticed? Changes in the Out-of-Wedlock Co...

First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. --Mahatma Gandhi... READ MORE

Hurry Up, Quick! The Beautiful and Talented Sandra...

Time to throw our support behind a beautiful and talented black woman who carries our message of love beyond racial borders.... READ MORE

Etiquette 101: Graciousness in Competition

On the national stage, black women must "represent," not with hair, but with a gracious and refined attitude, ESPECIALLY when it sucks.... READ MORE

Come Hither: Bees in the Trap (So He’s Check...

If you read the first part of my little 'how to' on being a man magnet diva, you already learned a few new tricks meant to catch the eye of any red bl... READ MORE

Black Women, Love and Where They WON’T ...

This is the follow-up post to my previous article on how little sense it made for black women to waste their time looking for love and acceptance from... READ MORE