marriage

3 of the Cutest Holiday Date Ideas

Written by: Saran Lawson   The holidays are upon us. Mistletoes are hanging in every place imaginable, and cuffing (relationship) season is in f...
READ MORE
QOTW, undesirable, advice, perception, self esteem, messages, marriage, attraction, online dating, stereotypes,

QOTW: “How Do I Stop Believing I’m Und...

Hello! So, a brief description of myself. I am a young black woman, 21, in college and due to graduate soon. I have always known that I was more attra...
READ MORE
Jacque Reid, Tom Joyner, radio, personality, coaching, IRR dating,

Honest Question: What Do Folks Expect Quality Blac...

By now you’ve heard that I’m coaching adorable radio and television personality, Jacque Reid. We announced the endeavor, coordinated with ...
READ MORE
dating, relationships, Steve Harvey, black men, advice, money, demographic, stereotypes, culture, society, marriage, Black People Meet, OKCupid, Tinder, Match.com, Sam Yagan, Paula Dean, mentoring,

Steve Harvey Has a New Dating Websites Aimed at &#...

Steve Harvey, comedian and talk show pulpit extraordinaire is launching a dating website aimed at those looking for love in all the wrong places. And ...
READ MORE
Amber Rose, Wiz Khalifa, rapper, divorce, cheating, prenuptial, marriage, hip hop, entertainers, spousal support, legal, wife, benefits, children, families, resources, protection, advice, entertainment, Kayne West,

If It Can Happen to Amber Rose…..Why That Ma...

Somewhere, out there, many many men are celebrating. Somewhere, deep within the corridors of single men’s mind there lives a plan to snag one of...
READ MORE
advice, Youtube, black men, culture, destructive behaviors, children, abandonment, warning, video, dating, single motherhood, pregnancy, fatherless children, casual sex, regrets, young women,

Black Man Admits Hood Dudes Corrupt Black Women...

by Christelyn Karazin Sometimes my You Tube channel is riddled with trolls, but sometimes a few nuggets of teachable moments come through to exemplify...
READ MORE
Youtube, marriage, couples, divorce, black women with white men, relationship, interracial, blended families,

Open Forum: Okay; We Know White Men Married to Bla...

By now a lot of  you have heard about the study by the National Council of  Family relations reported that amongst the study of 6,000 respondents, w...
READ MORE
interracialdating.com, dating, educated black women looking for love, successful, power couple, actress, celebrity romance, open minded, network, matchmaker, OK Cupid, relationships, marriage, interracial, romance, celebrity dating, power couple, flirting, Chris Siber, Mistee Harris,

How Yours Truly Played Cupid with New Power Couple...

I first met Chris Silber during the release of My Last Day Without You, a movie loosely based on Chris’ personal story. Soon after, Chris and I ...
READ MORE
dating, men, relationships, marriage, swirling, black women, advice, vetting, men to avoid,

Stay Away from Sociopathic Men Who Wish to Corrupt...

Caution: I advise women who are never married single mothers to refrain from reading this post. This is not about you and your situation. Many of you ...
READ MORE
MCM, Man Candy Monday, ethnic men, flirting, dating, marriage, entertainment, culture, race, Indian men, East Asian men, brown, tan, turban,

Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot I...

Though I am very much receptive to all types of candy, I do favor a certain flavor when it comes to my favorite treats. Build me a man with dark eyes,...
READ MORE
dating, relationships, date ideas, blended couples, courting, entertainment, culture,

Fabulous Date Ideas for Cool People

The East Coast folks know that we’re on a tight deadline. These days you can’t quite tell when Summer springs or when Winter will Fall thr...
READ MORE
Eric Gardener, NYPD, New York Police Dept, Mayor DeBlasio, police brutality, black fathers, NYPD, violence, fatherless, marriage, family, children, urban america, social issues, community, news, social issues, justice, police brutality,

Gotta Say Something Because This is Inexcusable: E...

Many of you know that I draw a hard line on black men in the community who abandon their children en masse and never even think of marrying the volumi...
READ MORE
Essence, Black magazine, media, culture, class, race, stereotypes, Black Kang, dating options, self esteem, economics, messages, communication, marriage, value, bias, diversity in dating, misogynistic, racist, Idris Elba, skin magazine, Black interest magazines, sales, light skinned black women, Messence, Black Men Magazine,

The Unfair ‘Options’ Media Message: Wh...

As a former public relations executive, I can tell you without any doubt that the media sends us messages–messages that we expect, messages that...
READ MORE
interracial dating, black women dating white men, Swirling, book, video, diverse dating, dating outside your race, white men, advice, question of the week, culture, society, racism, intercultural communication, biracial, blended families, dark skinned women, community, international, quality men, black women dating white men, relationship, marriage, couples, swirling, blended families, culture, society, racism, fear,

Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re ...

A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so def...
READ MORE