Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community


There's been fervent discussion as of late regarding the widening disparity between the 3's and the 4's--as in curl pattern 3, which is a loose curl … [Read more...]

You Know Your Polish Rocks When the Technicians Ask Where You Bought It…Mineral Fusion Colors Give Boom-Pow


It's not often that I, as an avid gardener get both a manicure and pedicure at my local strip mall nail salon, but this time was special. I wanted to … [Read more...]

Another BB&W Reader Success Story! Remember April & Henry? They Got Hitched!


Some of you might recall a reader letter from April, who wrote me back in 2013 about how this blog was a support to her as she began dating Henry, a … [Read more...]

Robin Thicke and His Very Public Attempt to Win Back His Wife. You Buying It?

Kevin Hart, get you back, song, DBR, Real Househusbands of Hollywood, cheater, cheating, begging, guilty, promotion, public relationship, drama, gossip, loser, Robin Thicke is a creep, divorce, entertainment, music, DBR, media, couples, relationships, black women with white men, youtube, video, album,

Robin Thicke is really, really, really serious about winning back his humiliated wife, Paula Patton with this new video, "Get You Back," and warns all … [Read more...]

Company’s Photo Discrepancy Gives Subtle Message to Black Mothers Versus White Mothers


I've quietly watched a company called Baby K'Tan work to dig itself out of a public relation social media nightmare because of this photo. There are … [Read more...]

Delicious Zucchini Spaghetti with Fresh Pesto


I'm so excited that my yellow crookneck squash is producing like gangbusters, because I'm loving being able to create delicious spaghetti-like noodles … [Read more...]

Loving Day Flagship Event Recap Plus Adorable ‘Loving Stories’


If you live anywhere near the East Coast and didn't go to the Loving Day flagship event in New York City earlier this month, you might want to kick … [Read more...]

Valid Excuse? Why You’re Not Seeing a New Post Today…


Well...most of you know I'm the mom of four children. An AMBITIOUS mom for four children. I decided that on the 11th birthday of my middle-ton, Chloe, … [Read more...]

Who Knew Asian Men Were This Sexy? More of Philippe, Host of the 100% Mixed Show

100% Mixed, Phillippe Koo, Chinese, German, model, video host, mixed dating, asian men, black women, biracial, marriage, couples, dating, black women dating non black men,

My new friend, Philippe Koo is truly one of the most beautiful Asian men I've ever seen in my life. His father is Chinese and his mother is German, … [Read more...]

Utter Hypocrisy: Let’s Talk About All the Dudes Hating On Eve’s Marriage

Essence, Dr. Farrah Gray, Black men, haters, marriage, Eve, Maximillion Cooper, swirling, media, families, blended couples, engagements, culture,

Sigh...a segment of people invested in keeping black women in an inferior position (and I say "people," because this group is composed of both black … [Read more...]