This post is a bit tricky because it deals with the issue of intersectionality. I strongly suggest people read up on the term and who is impacted. I … [Read more...]
Why We Don’t Talk About Black Men: A Response Post Of Sorts…
This is an unusual response post for me; I'm actually not in opposition to what was written in Brenda's very intensive post. It's actually one that … [Read more...]
All The People Crying About Letters And Conspiracy Theories: Go Get Your Life!
Sometimes when black women say they are moving forward, they are instead stalling themselves by continuously looking back. Someone wisely referred to … [Read more...]
The Five Stages of Black Woman Grief, Part 2: Bargaining and Depression
This post is meant to continue where the first part left off. Stage Three: The Bargaining Black Woman As stated in the first … [Read more...]
To Whom It May Concern: Black Skin Is “International”.
I admit, I had fallen off the fashion reality show bandwagon long before Tyra completely lost her mind with these latest seasons of "America's Next … [Read more...]
The Five Stages of Black Woman Grief, Part 1
I have observed behaviors in black women, self included, that made me think of the Kübler-Ross model or "Five Stages of Grief". Many black women have … [Read more...]
Recognizing the Necessity and Importance of Dark-Skinned Feminine Beauty Part II
I was not prepared for the response to the first part of this post. I was not prepared to think of myself according to my skin shade rather than as … [Read more...]
Episode VI: Return of the Memo for the Ongoing Battle With the GAT-DL
A Long Time Ago, On An Interracial Relationship Blog Not Too Far Away .... GAT-DL WARS *scrolling … [Read more...]
Damaged vs. Damaged Beyond Repair vs. Work-in-Progress: What’s the Difference?
The words "Damaged Beyond Repair" or "DBR" get thrown around a lot in BWE-centric and similar spaces. But what does it mean? In truth, there are two … [Read more...]
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Monogamy Isn’t A Condom: What You Don’t Know Can Hurt You!
First, I strongly recommend everyone read this article and watch the video on the subject. Pay special attention to these parts … [Read more...]
Macho Little Black Girls Part II: Machoism Kills….No Exceptions.
In order to get on with the second part to this post, I made myself finish watching the rather disturbing video posted in another discussion topic. It … [Read more...]
Sh!t Haters Say to Discourage Black Women From Dating Out
Attention haters, I have a confession. I only engage you in conversation in order to do the following: To demonstrate how much of an idiot you are, to show the world you’re an idiot, and to give real examples of your idiocy. Got this note on our Facebook fan page minutes ago. I was like […]