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All The People Crying About Letters And Conspiracy Theories: Go Get Your Life!
Being aware of the tricks and attempts at manipulation sent your way is certainly a must, but this doesn’t require you get angry or fearful. Simply side-step these persons and keep walking. How emotionally invested you become in the efforts of black trolls is often an indicator of how far removed you actually are from these constructs. If they have the ability to tap into a high level of your emotion, you are NOT free. It’s as simple as that.
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Why it Might Be Premature to Celebrate the Re-Authorization of the Violence Against Women Act
House Republicans think rape is negotiable. I think it’s safe to say all is lost…
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Thinking Of Moving Abroad? Better Find Out Who’s ‘Packing’ Before You Start Packing!! (INFOGRAPHIC)
This may be one of the THE MOST INSIGHTFUL infographics for the single ladies…lol
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Monogamy Isn’t A Condom: What You Don’t Know Can Hurt You!
It isn’t enough to pretend that your being with one guy is enough to save your life and your womb. Because it’s not. Get tested often, and always use protection. Monogamy isn’t a condom.
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Macho Little Black Girls Part II: Machoism Kills….No Exceptions.
“I do strongly suspect that this behavior is a sadistic attempt to encourage black women into a mentality and lifestyle that “protects them” from being feminine little girls. Because there are too many predators in the black community who don’t see a sweet little girl. Instead, they see a wet hole just asking for it because she’s a ho anyway.”
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My Sex Life is None of Your Business!!! Or is it?
What women do with their privates is no one else’s business and it doesn’t harm anyone as long as the sex is consensual and safe right? I disagree. I think some people are oblivious to the fact that there are sexual norms (it’s intro social psychology and sociology). Sometimes these people even propose that “anything sexual is normal as long as it’s consensual”. They don’t realize that they are establishing the new sexual norm of ‘anything goes and everything is okay’ and that there is something ‘abnormal’ about you if you think otherwise.
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Does Lifting a Ban on Women in Combat Help with Gender Equality in the Military?
The Pentagon wants to allow women on the front-lines of combat. But, do the ends justify the means?
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Commentary on the Crooked Room: You Mad Sapphire? You Mad…the Angry Black Woman Trope
Ever had someone declare your anger? Without your input? Well, that’s because you’re an angry black woman, a Sapphire to be exact. Melissa Harris-Perry uncovers this stereotype as the third and perhaps most dubious image in the crooked room.
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Serena Williams Caricatured By a White ‘Friend.’ Was Her Response Appropriate?
Was Caroline Wozniacki being racist when impersonating Serena Williams? How should Williams have responded?
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New Dissolving Female Condom Said to Prevent Pregnancy, STI’s, and HIV
Ever since BB&W regular, Law Wanxi, wrote to me with an uncomfortable truth, that women are pretty much on their own when it comes to birth control, the more I believe he might be right. That’s why I got excited when the geniuses at the University of Washington have created a dissolving female condom that not only protects women from unwanted pregnancy, but is said to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections and HIV/AIDS.
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Commentary on the Crooked Room: Melissa Harris-Perry Reveals the Jezebel in All Her Glory
You’ve heard about the “crooked room,” now meet the characters posted on the walls. First up, the Jezebel.
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Up For Discussion: Is There a War on Men?
Here’s the conundrum: I love what the Sexual Revolution and Women’s Lib achieved *in general* but with every shift, there comes consequences. Are we ready for them?
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A Man’s Right to Choose: The Ongoing Battle over Your Uterus
Does it seem like women’s reproductive rights have been at the forefront of virtually every senatorial, gubernatorial, or presidential election debate thus far? Well, maybe that’s because as the parties polarize, more extreme views of social issues become the norm. So, what does this mean for the epic Roe v. Wade? Only time will tell…
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What Black Men Say When Black Women Aren’t Around
What do men talk about when women aren’t around? Is the conversation different based on the races, ages and culture of the men? Tracy has the inside scoop…
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