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New Anti-Swirling Meme: “How Can You Oppose Racism And Be Attracted To White Men?”

I've been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip black … [Read more...]

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Intimacy Is Not Built Through Sex. Surprised?

  A couple of months ago, I downloaded Tinder after hearing good things about it. And in one month’s time, I had four dates with three guys, … [Read more...]

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Feminism Series: Real Reasons Women Aren’t Happy During Pregnancy…..Including Black Women, Too

So the conversation rages on over the real meaning behind the study released by Stephen Wu and Paul Hagstrom revealing the level of unhappiness … [Read more...]

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Happy Humpday: A Tiny Ember or a Raging Inferno (Does Size Really Matter?)

Congratulations! You've made it to midweek. Only a few more days to go. So since you've got some time on your hands and may find yourself sitting … [Read more...]

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Monday Man Candy: A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

The weather is starting to heat up but since I'm impatient I've decided to turn up my our body heat the old fashioned way. Mother nature...... PRAISE … [Read more...]

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Surrender Versus Submission: What You Don’t Know Might Hurt You

All this talk of men, sex, and femininity, yet again, has got my mind sizzling with ways in which I might be able to explain to you what's so awesome … [Read more...]

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National Black HIV Awareness Day: Have You Been Tested?

February 7th is National HIV Awareness Day. HIV/AIDS has claimed approximately 250,745 lives over the last five years. Though much less than the 80's … [Read more...]

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Beyonce (the Album) Review: Why this Church Girl Loves Bey and the Book of Knowles-Carter

Did y’all catch that Grammy performance?  Dayum.  I thought she had lost it as she had be gone for a minute, but we should never count King Bey out.  … [Read more...]

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Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Comment on Her Sexiness?

A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it's own … [Read more...]

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Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality?

My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones's post "Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Black Females" … [Read more...]

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Kiss Worry Goodbye: The MUA Box Keeps Your Privacy Completely Private

Pssst...Hey you! Yeah, you with the unmentionable objects kept in the draw with your other unmentionables. Have you ever wondered how you can conceal … [Read more...]

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Tis the Season to Give: The Naughty or Nice Adult Toy Giveaway

Baby, it's cold outside, so what's a girl to do to keep warm!? Well, as with anything else, you've got options, baby. You could always turn up the … [Read more...]

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The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Should Stay Fat

I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial … [Read more...]