Monday Man Candy: A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

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The weather is starting to heat up but since I'm impatient I've decided to turn up my our body heat the old fashioned way. Mother nature...... PRAISE … [Read more...]

Surrender Versus Submission: What You Don’t Know Might Hurt You

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All this talk of men, sex, and femininity, yet again, has got my mind sizzling with ways in which I might be able to explain to you what's so awesome … [Read more...]

National Black HIV Awareness Day: Have You Been Tested?

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February 7th is National HIV Awareness Day. HIV/AIDS has claimed approximately 250,745 lives over the last five years. Though much less than the 80's … [Read more...]

Beyonce (the Album) Review: Why this Church Girl Loves Bey and the Book of Knowles-Carter

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Did y’all catch that Grammy performance?  Dayum.  I thought she had lost it as she had be gone for a minute, but we should never count King Bey out.  … [Read more...]

Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Comment on Her Sexiness?

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A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it's own … [Read more...]

Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality?

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My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones's post "Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Black Females" … [Read more...]

Kiss Worry Goodbye: The MUA Box Keeps Your Privacy Completely Private

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Pssst...Hey you! Yeah, you with the unmentionable objects kept in the draw with your other unmentionables. Have you ever wondered how you can conceal … [Read more...]

Tis the Season to Give: The Naughty or Nice Adult Toy Giveaway

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Baby, it's cold outside, so what's a girl to do to keep warm!? Well, as with anything else, you've got options, baby. You could always turn up the … [Read more...]

The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Should Stay Fat

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I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial … [Read more...]

PT 2: An Honest Conversation Between You and I: Black Female Sexual Repression, Shame and Neglect

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This is part two of a conversation inspired by an email I received from one of our dear readers. My intention as a writer is to bring light to the … [Read more...]

OOW Children Are No Mistake, But Stop Projecting Your Ego Onto Your Child.

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One of the most difficult discussions when it comes to the OOW rate among black women is acknowledging that it is a problem. Mainly because black … [Read more...]