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"What's this, Helen, a cure to my chronic depression? THANK YOU!!"

Yes; this is a shameless plug. But it you can't be shameless in your own house, where then, can you? While you're out and about, or rather, in … [Read more...]

LMU Book Signing Full of Young, Black Women and Fathers Concerned for Their Daughters

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Last night Janice and I did a book signing at our alma mater, Loyola Marymount University Los Angeles (go Lions!!). We packed the house and sold out … [Read more...]

BB&W and SWIRLING Comes to San Francisco October 13!!

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I'm finally hearing that San Francisco has began their five minutes of summer this month, which is a nice change because when I was ACTUALLY THERE IN … [Read more...]

Rainbeau Spots a Girl Who’s Never Swirled, Too Shy To Speak Up But…

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Remember Josh, the shy guy I mentioned on my Atlanta recap post yesterday would spotted a gorgeous girl who came to our event who never dated … [Read more...]

Atlanta Recap, In Pit-chas!

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My Atlanta trip was probably one of the BEST, no...it was THE BEST trip on the SWIRLING book tour thus far. I got to go to the CNN center NOT as a … [Read more...]

Plan Our D.C. SWIRLING Party and WIN a Free T-Shirt and Dough!

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Me and the good folks at Interracial Dating and Social Connections (IDSocialConnect) Meetup Group are planning to a HUU-UUGE event in Washington D.C. … [Read more...]

Ladies, It Looks Like We’ve Got Some Allies…!

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Last night's SWIRLING event in Brooklyn was by far the largest we've had so far. My agent says that there were about 160 people there, so woo … [Read more...]

Hey BB&W–Meet Me in Brooklyn!

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The deets:   My pals Alex Barnett and Abiola Abrams will be on the discussion panel.  You can RSVP here. Brenda and Karla, note the … [Read more...]

Time to Address All this “Men Are Men” and “The Myth of the White Knight” Memes

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Several of you ladies have sent me links to a few trending stories about how "mystified" some black women bloggers are about all the "hoopla" … [Read more...]

Custom-Made SWIRLING Earrings!

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Got to love Twitter. It's mostly inane, but sometimes you can hook up with some great folks, like jewelry artist, Carlea Jones of Lycelle Marie … [Read more...]

Calling All BB&W Los Angeles Folks: Come See Me & Janice Talk SWIRLING at the Leimert Park Book Festival!!

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This is my first time attending the Leimert Park Book Festival, but this is a big deal. I'm pinching myself that Janice and I will be part of the … [Read more...]