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83 LMU Book Signing Full of Young, Black Women and Fathers Concerned for Their Daughters

LMU Book Signing Full of Young, Black Women and Fathers Concerned for Their Daughters

Besides completely selling out of books, a couple things happened that reinforced the necessity for me to continue to nag young college girls to maximize ALL their dating options and not just hang out in the dorms painting each other’s toenails on Friday night. Also had a poignant moment with a black father who is struggling with the possibility of having a non-black son-in law.


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11 BB&W and SWIRLING Comes to San Francisco October 13!!

BB&W and SWIRLING Comes to San Francisco October 13!!

Come for Swirling! Come for (LOTS) of eye candy! Come because you don’t have any thing else better to do on a Saturday night!


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71 Rainbeau Spots a Girl Who’s Never Swirled, Too Shy To Speak Up But…

Rainbeau Spots a Girl Who’s Never Swirled, Too Shy To Speak Up But…

Remember Josh, the shy guy I mentioned on my Atlanta recap post yesterday would spotted a gorgeous girl who came to our event who never dated interracially? Well, she must have made quite an impression.


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12 Atlanta Recap, In Pit-chas!

Atlanta Recap, In Pit-chas!

My Atlanta trip was probably one of the BEST, no…it was THE BEST trip on the SWIRLING book tour thus far. I got to go to the CNN center NOT as a tourist, but as a guest with a tag and everything! The interview with Natasha Curry was awesome sauce, and she’s so unbelievably down to earth. Turns out Natasha is a product of an interracial union (dad black, mom white) and is married to a white rainbeau, which explains her enthusiasm for all things Swirling.


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6 Plan Our D.C. SWIRLING Party and WIN a Free T-Shirt and Dough!

Plan Our D.C. SWIRLING Party and WIN a Free T-Shirt and Dough!

Whoever comes up with the best and most usable idea the we use as the theme will win a free SWIRLING t-shirt, a FREE month membership with online dating site, DateWhoYouWant.com, and a $40 Visa gift card.


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232 Time to Address All this “Men Are Men” and “The Myth of the White Knight” Memes

Time to Address All this “Men Are Men” and “The Myth of the White Knight” Memes

Several of you ladies have sent me links to a few trending stories about how “mystified” some black women bloggers are about all the “hoopla” surrounding interracial dating, particularly when it comes to white men. Now normally I don’t address haterade every time it’s thrown my way because I have better things to do, like have that root canal and colonoscopy I’ve been putting off. But when the target of the ire really isn’t about me, but about attacking the message–that black women are entitled to have happy, healthy relationship choices just like every other man and woman on the planet, then you’re going to get me showing my fangs and claws.


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39 Custom-Made SWIRLING Earrings!

Custom-Made SWIRLING Earrings!

Got to love Twitter. It’s mostly inane, but sometimes you can hook up with some great folks.


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10 AWESOME SAUCE! “Awkward Black Girl” Star, Sujata Day Joins Us for the SWIRLING San Diego Bash!!

AWESOME SAUCE! “Awkward Black Girl” Star, Sujata Day Joins Us for the SWIRLING San Diego Bash!!

Love “CeCe’s” comical interracial dating advice on ‘Awkward Black Girl?’ see her in person at our SWIRLING big bash at The Grand Del Mar!


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23 IRR Book Excerpt: “Dirty Secrets”

IRR Book Excerpt: “Dirty Secrets”

What’s better than a little interracial romance on a Sunday afternoon?


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16 Book Launch Recap: A “Lovely Day”

Book Launch Recap: A “Lovely Day”

For those of you who weren’t able to make it, yesterday’s Swirling book signing at Eso Won in Los Angeles was standing room only, and there was a line out the door. LOVED that my BB&W peeps, Elizabeth, Lorrainne, Czarina, Masha, Demita and Kimberly came! You guys rock!


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32 Gone “Swirling” Today!

Gone “Swirling” Today!

Artist rendering by Adam Reid Janusz (this was ALMOST the book cover for SWIRLING). I kept it because I just love looking that that hot black chick about to devour something delicious. ;-)


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269 Groundbreaking Columbia Study: Fear and Stereotypes keep Black Women out of Interracial Marriage

Groundbreaking Columbia Study: Fear and Stereotypes keep Black Women out of Interracial Marriage

Black women in America are more likely to be unmarried than women of other races. They are also least likely to marry men outside of their race although a Pew Research Center report suggests that interracial marriage has more than doubled since 1980.

Released in February 2012, the report suggests that there are specific gender variations within some racial groups. Asian women are twice as likely to marry out as Asian men and Black males are more than twice as likely to marry out as their female counterparts.


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18 Matthew Hussey and BB&W Meet Again to Talk “Swirling,” and  How to Deal with Disapproval

Matthew Hussey and BB&W Meet Again to Talk “Swirling,” and How to Deal with Disapproval

The cute Brit that’s got all you BB&W ladies enchanted is back in Los Angeles doing some hush-hush big-time project planning. “His Grace” took time out to chat about “Swirling,” and I found out that lo and behold, there’s something this relationship guru has never done. Tune in for the reason.


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