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23 comments
Faithful1
Faithful1

Good Morning , Newbie here , I saw this on Facebook and was super interested.

Pepyone
Pepyone

Hey, This is great! I have dated interracially and had no regrets. I am feeling like most sistas that we are left out of the equation when it comes to "marriage" to a brotha. Everyone wants the goods but no papers. I was offended by my current interest when the definition of "life partner" was used to as I feel, put limits on how far the relationship can go. So I totally support NWNW. I will be announcing this on the air this Sunday for people to check it out and follow up on. Thanks for giving a voice to so many of us that want long term commitments with somebody special.

We as women have got to stop being afraid of being alone and recognize WE ARE THE PRIZE -- not the guy!!! We were made to be an attraction, a desire for the other and we have it all twisted!! UNTWISTED US and put us up where we belong!! LOVE WHO YOU ARE AND DON'T SETTLE FOR MESS (I WROTE MESS - NOT LESS INTENTIONALLY)!!!

Jay Fenton
Jay Fenton

Can a white guy join your movement?

PrettyInPink
PrettyInPink

I'm really happy to see a blog about interracial/intercultural dating beyond the usual black-male-white-female.

I am Dominican, my fiance is black, but my FAMILY is white (I'm adopted)! So my situation is pretty different :). I look forward to being a part of this community.

Elissa
Elissa

Well I'm glad to see the female representation of interracial love....for so long all I saw was the black guy white girl thing and when I did see a black woman with a white man see seemed angry or bitter for some reason and the guy seemed scared...I like the positive light you're putting in this particular kind of love

lafemmenoir
lafemmenoir

New format, huh? You didn't have to get all gussied up for us, but we sure do appreciate it. :-)

Valerie
Valerie

Congratulations and lovely blog!

Robin Henson
Robin Henson

Thanks Chris I really enjoy your blogs...They are very inspiring and they help me a lot since I'm now in an Interracial Marriage....keep writing and I'll keep reading

Karen R.
Karen R.

Hi, I have just found you at Black Women Deserve Better. I hope AA women in droves purchase your upcoming book.

E
E

I'm in and spreading the word! Here's the a new decade of LOVED black women.

funkystarkitty50
funkystarkitty50

I LOVE this site!!! I am happy to see more blogs like this. Thank You!!!

A.C.
A.C.

Just read your blogs. They are quite inspiring. Keep doing what you do!

MDR
MDR

Hello Chris, First, I'd like to congratulate you on taking this leap of faith. Taking this movement past the rumor mills to an in your face discussion and taking those insensitive stairs and turning it into a vehicle of empowerment.

Let me also say that I am 100% supportive if you not just because you are family, but because of how relevant this topic is and and
how much needed this topic is. Although, my own "prince charming" happens to be AA (your brother), my immediate family looks like the "Rainbow Coalition" too, thanks in part to my brother and nieces and nephews who have found their princes and princesses in another shade on the rainbow spectrum.

Sis, I love you and cannot wait til this "movement" takes flight. Although, the topic is not something I can relate to personally, I DO know what it's like to be the "lady in waiting" for my PC and hoping he looks like me. You and I have had this discussion before...had your brother not come knocking, I was just at that point where my mind was opening up to the possibility of love in another shade. God had other plans for me though. I recognize that when your heart flutters it's the personality and compassion of the man that we are attracted to and there are so many things more important
than the color of ones skin.

Christelyn Karazin
Christelyn Karazin

Glad you like the place. We are a very supportive community, and the women on here share their experiences and give great advice. Hope you stick around for a while!

Christelyn
Christelyn

Actually, you might see even more changes. You see, while I write the book I decidedly will not be doing any magazine gigs. So...I'm hoping that I can generate a few bucks in advertising. Would that gross everyone out, or what? I'm kinda nervous about it.

randomthoughtsfromcali
randomthoughtsfromcali

Thanks, Sis. I love you, and thanks for all your support. You're a wonderful cheerleader!