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Black men

Just How Divested are You?

Trigger warning: If you are a fan of Kobe Bryant, Terry Crews, Bill Cosby, Harvey Weinstein, Nelly, or defending black men in general, maybe sit this ...
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Why is the bar so low?

Written by Nicole J. Stop me if you’ve seen it before.   Say you’re scrolling on Facebook and you come across a status shared by a friend. No...
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black woman with questions

What do you gain from incessant manstroking?

Written by Nicole J. I spend a lot of time online in black women circles. The topics are vast, ranging from hair and makeup to keto recipes to cleanin...
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Jacque Reid, New York Post, news, media, celebrity, dating, matchmaking, Tom Joyner Morning Show, black men, backlash, swirling, interracial dating, Clutch, interracialdating.com, Young, Black and Fabulous

Black Female-Centered Media is Coming Around to Ou...

Before the New York Post wrote about Jacque Reid’s reversal of her decision to participate in my coaching, I was often the running joke of onlin...
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dating, relationships, Steve Harvey, black men, advice, money, demographic, stereotypes, culture, society, marriage, Black People Meet, OKCupid, Tinder, Match.com, Sam Yagan, Paula Dean, mentoring,

Steve Harvey Has a New Dating Websites Aimed at &#...

Steve Harvey, comedian and talk show pulpit extraordinaire is launching a dating website aimed at those looking for love in all the wrong places. And ...
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male opinion, street harassment, abuse, violence against women, dialogue, conversation, men, black men, stereotypes, tropes, social issues, culture, perception,

He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street ...

Editorial by: Howard Tyrone Smith II Video: Christelyn Karazin HE SAID… The murder of Mary “Unique” Spears and countless other women...
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black women, black men, society, culture, perception, stereotypes, tropes, discussion, self hatred, deflection, conversation,

From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hat...

Greetings BB&W, As a strong supporter of your work and what it stands for, I’d like to say something to all the naysaying black men on this ...
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Jemele Hill, Ray Rice, domestic violence, abuse, black men, bed wench, social media, Facebook, athletes, celebrity, news, ESPN, Ray Rice, NFL, sports, athletes, violence against women, news, internet trolls, online hatred, online abuse, Facebook, racism, marriage, retaliation, apologist, misogyny, Black men,

Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill ...

I just have to say something. These so-called pro-black militants on Facebook who “claim” they only desire the betterment and advancement ...
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reader comments, black men, racist, opinions, criticism, race relations, misogyny , sexism, abuse, exploitation, mules, mammies, push back, pop culture,

Reader Letter: Black Woman Married to a Black Man ...

I love it when people finally “get” it. The letter… I pop in on your site from time to time and my feelings about what you are tryin...
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black men, nonsense, relationships, pimping, running game, culture, marriage, family, lifestyle,

Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Ha...

This photo and subsequent caption came along my Facebook feed, and not the first time–I’ve seen lots of propaganda of late advocating poly...
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Essence, Dr. Farrah Gray, Black men, haters, marriage, Eve, Maximillion Cooper, swirling, media, families, blended couples, engagements, culture,

Utter Hypocrisy: Let’s Talk About All the Du...

Sigh…a segment of people invested in keeping black women in an inferior position (and I say “people,” because this group is composed...
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hate,politics, Sterling, NAACP, NBA, sports, plantation, money, donations, sell out, black organizations sell out, money trail, racist rant, forgiveness, abuse, pop culture, racism, industry, news, media, organization, boycott, social media, racism, black men, stupidity, bed wench, white men, mixed marriage, shit haters say, black men hate black women dating out, black men hate black women, talking shit, stupid black guys, black women haters, youtube, video, powerless, resentful, bullying, comments,

Whorish NAACP Willing to “Forgive” Don...

I have lost the last atom of respect for the organization my father was a member of–the NAACP. Apparently they are willing to “forgiveR...
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#ashylarryboyband, lupita nyong'0, people magazine, cover girl, racism, black women hatred, black men hate black women, twitter, trending topic, news, media, hashtag, defense, social media, online, 2014, 12 years a slave, actress, dark skin woman, mixed couples, interracial dating, swirlr, swirling, black women are beautiful, beautiful black woman,

Don’t Come for Lupita! #AshyLarryBoyBands Th...

Yeah. So, deep in the midst of an international Black woman celebration comes hecklers and haters aiming their teef sucking and unsolicited opinions a...
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mixed dating, relationships, interracial, blended couples, white men, black men, advice, QOTW

QOTW: White Guy Worried He’s ONLY Attracted ...

Hi Christelyn, I discovered you on Youtube. I enjoy your input on IR dating and would definitely consider you the “expert” on this topic o...
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