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Jason and Colette: Player One and Player Two

Note 1: This article was not written or endorsed by Christelyn Karazin, Nicole or any other writers on the blog.   Colette took me up on my offer...
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Not Dating Bisexual Men Does Not Make Black Women ...

Disclaimer: This post is a long one. If you are going to start frothing at the mouth because you read the title and a few paragraphs, please save your...
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Diony and William: A Second Chance at Love, Part 1

We have a new love story for you all. I hope you enjoy this new Couple Spotlight with Diony and William.    What are your names? Our names are D...
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Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! 

Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not...
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Three Things We Can Leave Behind in 2019

It is 2020! I want to wish you a Happy New Year! May all of life’s blessings come to you and your family. May this be your best year yet! As I m...
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Finding Your Rainbeau: Loni Speaks, Part 1

It Gets Real I have been watching episodes of The Real for quite some time. I started watching shortly after Tamar left, and, occasionally, I will go ...
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Question of the Week: Why Do You Swirl?

I recently noticed a rather lengthy post from one of our male followers. I thought that I would share his post, with permission. I hope that you enjoy...
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Twitter After Dark: Life, Love and the Pursuit of ...

The title is a little sensational, but bear with me. This post is going to be spicy! The other day, I left a work event very late. When I came home, I...
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Jade and Tom: A New Perspective, Part 2

After I posted a picture of another couple on our social media, Jade and Tom reached out. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to speak with them....
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Jade and Tom: One Year of Love, Part One

After I posted a picture of another couple on our social media, Jade and Tom reached out. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to speak with them....
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He’s Just Not That Into You: The Case of Angela ...

Thanks to Nic and Christelyn, I have been challenged to expand my writing repertoire beyond my weekly interviews. While I will still be interviewing c...
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Should black women say bye to bi guys?

Written by Nicole J. There has been much chat about the sexual practices and beliefs of some celebrity black men of late. Malik Yoba has been catching...
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Another Pink Pill Dosage: Couples in Review, Part ...

We are back again with another “Pink Pill Dosage,” where I look back on some of the past couple spotlights, and draw some advice, insight and real...
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Pink Pill Dosage: Interview takeaways, Part 1

It has been an amazing journey writing for this blog. It still doesn’t quite seem real. Now that we have gone through a few couples on the blog, I t...
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