Compare How this U.S. Woman Got Rejected with My E...

A video appeared on my Facebook feed yesterday that nearly brought me to tears. It showed a young, pretty black woman recounting her experience at a c... READ MORE

Patreon Perk: Meet the Lovely Kay!

I have a pretty cool perk for my $20 pledges on Patreon that help support this blog. They get featured here on the blog and since Kay is the first, I ... READ MORE

Why Are Black Women So Insecure?

Why are black women so insecure?  It’s a comment often used to criticize and marginalize us. The question is thrown around without the benefit ... READ MORE

Get that Glow with Tarte Clay Stick Foundation!

It may look easy, but prepping for videos takes a ton of time. My sisters expect my makeup to be on point, but I’m just not into that #MAClife a... READ MORE

Black Women Have “Bad PR.” What One Co...

Sometimes, you get a comment that’s so golden, it needs to be it’s own blog post. This came from a subscriber commenting on yesterday̵... READ MORE

QOTW: “I Feel Threatened By Asian Women.R...

Dear Christelyn, I first off would love to thank you for channel! I wish there was a woman like you when I was a young girl.  you embody everything I... READ MORE

The ONE Thing That Transformed My Body in my 40...

Yesterday was my 44th birthday. I can’t believe it. I remember when a woman in her 40’s was on her way to being over the hill, less desire... READ MORE

New Study Says Biracial Children Test as Well as W...

Much to the chagrin of white supremacists, it looks like children from multi-racial backgrounds test just as well in reading, writing, math and scienc... READ MORE

Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week!

These folks have their own You Tube channel. Check them out! Getting ice cream with the kids. #swirl #swirling #teamswirl #swirlnation #swirllife #lov... READ MORE

Older Black Woman, Younger Non-Black Man…Can...

Lots of fans have asked me to address this, and at long last, here it is! https://youtu.be/jyW693SU1OM It’s a new world, folks. Follow Christely... READ MORE

Phthalate in Mac and Cheese…Another Reason t...

A recent independent study conducted by the Coalition for Safer Food Processing and Packaging on 40 different brands indicated that phthalate in mac a... READ MORE

The Inner Conflict of Loving Music that Marginaliz...

Last week my crew and I headed to the Salsa Festival on St. Claire’s in Toronto to take in the local ethnic flavor. I was sitting in the backsea... READ MORE

Three Reasons Your Online Dating Profile Sucks.

I get so many private notes from fans about how they’ve tried EVERYTHING and STILL can get bites on online dating sites. Since it’s becomi... READ MORE

More Interracial Dating in Toronto: Do THIS to Get...

As I’m learning more and more about Canada, I learning a few things about the social culture there. While interracial dating in Toronto is so co... READ MORE