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OK, We Get It: You Don’t Find White Men Attr...

Here's the thing, I completely understand that not all black women will find non-black men attractive. Thus my suggestion to a black women to open her... READ MORE

Series Finale! BB&W and Cutie-Patootey Matthe...

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Video: “Why So Much Hate For Black Women Who...

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Leona’s Love Quest, Part I: Making Love a Pr...

"Welcome to my quest for love! In last week’s introduction I explained how three books, Love in 90 Days by Diana Kirschner, PhD., If I’m... READ MORE

Slave Master Love Redux: The Myth that Only White ...

I find it interesting that black women only comment on non black men 'wanting sex.' Most black women seem to have zero problems with sleeping with bla... READ MORE

Forget Emulating Asian Women! Asian Men Don’...

Like black women, Asian men have low intermarriage rates. But here's one HUGE difference: They're STILL getting married.... READ MORE

Stealth Vetting: Nine Questions to Ask Your Rainbe...

The BWE blogs talk a lot about vetting, so we know it means more than working a gig giving pets shots and enemas. But the question is, how do we vet? ... READ MORE

The New, NEW Black Woman: Fri Forjindam

Meet the brainchild behind "Wedding Nouveau" magazine... READ MORE

New Feature: “Leona’s Love Quest!̶...

Follow this BB&W Crew member as she goes on an earnest and deliberate quest to find love. Get your popcorn ready!... READ MORE

Super Cute Vid! “10 Reasons You Should Date ...

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Question of the Week: Dating After Sexual Assault

**Attention all--I got this question today, and because of the sensitive nature of the post, I brought in a licensed therapist, Tina Tessina, PhD, to ... READ MORE

Anybody Find Love Through Online Gaming or Apps?

Anybody hook up meeting someone you'd been battling "World of Warcraft" with?... READ MORE

AT LAST! An Online Dating Site All About Putting a...

Just when some of you were ready to pack up your marbles and leave the whole online thing, or at least use your net time playing online games like Far... READ MORE