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Multiple Choices: The A, B, C’s of Romance

Our resident sex and romance expert is at it again!... READ MORE

Does Good Sex Matter…and If So How Much?

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Video: Skinfolk Ain’t Always Kinfolk–C...

A common misconception that I often hear from (mostly) black people is that somehow having the same skin color automatically means you will enjoy a sh... READ MORE

Come Hither: Bees in the Trap (So He’s Check...

If you read the first part of my little 'how to' on being a man magnet diva, you already learned a few new tricks meant to catch the eye of any red bl... READ MORE

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I've been swirling since first grade and a boy chasing harlot for about as long. Surely there's something here for the respectable ladies of BB&W to l... READ MORE

VintageNarcissa: Potential Rainbeaus Now Closer Th...

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Five Quirky Reasons for the Rise of Interracial Ma...

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Is Anyone Else Tired Of All The IR Lectures Direct...

Black woman, you are free to "be" just like everyone else!... READ MORE

(Pre) Loving Day Celebration: “Swirling̶...

Thanks to a secret BB&W benefactor, I am able to give away three copies of "Swirling: How to Date, Mate, and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed." ... READ MORE

Video Interview: One Asian Guy’s Take on AM/...

Our very own Ricky T in my backyard talking SWIRLING, Asian men, black women, and interracial dating.... READ MORE