(Almost) 20 Reasons Some Black Women Should NEVER ...

Based on nearly 10 years in the interracial dating business, I’ve come up with a definitive list for the types of black women who are on the fen... READ MORE

Black Woman Sued for Mocking White Woman’s I...

When are we going to realize that other ecosystems do act like everything is a tiff at the backyard barbeque? The New York Daily News recently reporte... READ MORE

What?! Successful, Non-Black Men Don’t Like ...

Recently, a much-discussed topic has been bubbling up about whether or not “men of means,” that is, successful and eligible, prefer women ... READ MORE

A Letter of Encouragement to Black Women from Inte...

I received this letter yesterday that so touched me, and I was delighted that he asked me to share this with you. With all the racially-charged rhetor... READ MORE

He Carried a Flame for Over 17 Years. He Finally G...

When Dylan sent me a seemingly random friend request about a year ago, I was curious. A quick glance at his stats–a cute lawyer from Austin̵... READ MORE

Exclusive: A Conversation with Author of New Inter...

Take a listen to Cheryl Judice, professor of Sociology at Northwestern University and author of Interracial Relationships Between Black Women and Whit... READ MORE

Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Onli...

Online behemoth Match.com recently announced at the annual “Singles in America” study by Match Group the 35% of marriages occur online. T... READ MORE

Meaghan Markle Becomes Increasingly More Estranged...

Meaghan Markle’s father has been quite vocal since his daughter’s wedding to Prince Harry, and Windsor Castle is not having it. According ... READ MORE

Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR...

One of my fans confided in me that she was so set on dating Asian men that she learned Mandarin and Korean. She then set out for an extended trip to C... READ MORE

China Fears ‘Black Invasion’ of AIDS, ...

In a startling article about China’s fears of a ‘black invasion’ from African immigrants, it appears that Asia is not as welcoming o... READ MORE

The New York Times Notices More IR Commercials, To...

As I just watched yet another interracial couple featured in a Progressive Insurance ad, (you know, the ones where the kids start turning into their p... READ MORE

It’s Loving Day, and So Many Black Women STI...

June 12 marks the 51st anniversary of the Loving vs. The State of Virginia that the United States Supreme Court upheld the right for Richard and Mildr... READ MORE

China Struggles with 33 Million Shortage of Marria...

Black women thought the two million black man shortage was bad. Imagine what Chinese men are going through now that there are 33 million more men than... READ MORE

Seasoned Swirlers and Online Dating…It Works...

I have been heavily advocating online dating for nearly a decade, and there’s a good reason for that–it works. Yes; you may have to kiss a... READ MORE