*Special*

As Meghan Markle’s Star Rises, Jealous White...

Is anyone surprised that racist white women who have been told their whole lives that they are the pinnacle of femininity and beauty are having a prob...
READ MORE

It’s 2018! Time to Up Your Makeup Game!

By Kenna Christopherson The world makeup can be both exciting and confusing for those of you may be new to it. I’ve learned a great deal about makeu...
READ MORE

Ladies, STOP Squawking About Black Actors Having ...

It happened with Red Tails, Birth of a Nation, and now Black Panther. Black women PUBLICLY complaining that black male actors are not living in real l...
READ MORE

Carrie: My 48-Hour Date

By: Carrie Thompson   Was he, afraid, to touch me? I can make him.  It is time. When *Trevor laid eyes on me, he always maintained a safe, gentl...
READ MORE

Happy New Year!! What Are Your Plans?

Can’t let 2017 pass without telling all of you how much you mean to me, and how precious your support, encouragement, and participation in this ...
READ MORE

Henrik: “Submissive Men are STILL Men

To jump straight into the middle, I for one, hate to even think of controlling a woman as it is against the freedom of an individual. I love and adore...
READ MORE

If You Still Like R Kelly, We Can’t Be Frien...

I happened passed a conversation on Facebook from a black woman asking if there were any R Kelly fans in the house. Some women replied with delight, n...
READ MORE
culture, race, ethnic, names, children, blended families, racism, discrimination, privilege, society, employment, stigma, dating, relationships, insight, black men, options,white men, black women, dating, interracial marriage, blended families, relationships, romance, flirting, advice, reader question, looking for love,

When They Really Don’t Want You Doing Better...

What if the gaggle of people who were committed to perpetuating the idea that black women weren’t desirable suddenly had a LOT less to talk abou...
READ MORE

Harassment? THIS is Harassment!!

The #MeToo movement is in full effect, costing people their jobs, fame, and in one instance, their reason to live. But until you get SHOT TO DEATH bec...
READ MORE

How I Unwittingly Discovered a Nigerian Hacking Ca...

It all started when I began actively seeking men for our secret group, Beyond Black & White Singles. I went to financial and investment pages and ...
READ MORE

Jamele Hill and How Black Women Police and Shame O...

Let me first open by saying that I am no fan of Stacy Dash. Frankly, she confuses me. She seems a bit…”off.” But I have to jump in t...
READ MORE

SMASHBOX Is a SMASH

I have been on a nomadic search for the perfect purple lipstick that doesn’t make me look ridiculous. My search is over, and hellooooo SMASH BOX...
READ MORE

Black Media Swoops In to Remind Us Meaghan Markle ...

Did you see the article published in The Grio today, about their “concern” over the idea that a mixed race woman of African American decen...
READ MORE

Executing The Perfect Progressive Renovation

Every so often, our homes need a facelift. You could be newlyweds putting a personal spin on your first shared place, or you could be redoing the...
READ MORE