Confederates Vs. Patriots: Why I Think Our Founder...

Le (big old) sigh. I can’t believe I’ve been driven to write this, but I think it needs to be said. First, I’m all for the recent in... READ MORE

Author Jennifer Poe’s Novel “Hola Moro...

As the last gasps of summer harken the end of the season, on last read you might want to fit in is Hola Morocha, a memoir by author and long-time BB&a... READ MORE

Charlottesville Riots: Is This Where We Really Wan...

By now the world has witnessed the violence that has occurred in Charlottesville, Virginia, where white nationalists clashed with protestors during a ... READ MORE

BB&W Exclusive: Celebrity Millennial Flirting...

This is good for a laugh..Lilly Singh and Quinta Brunson never disappoint! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_VK3_1j4_is Follow Christelyn on Instagram ... READ MORE

Interview: YouTube Musician Afraid to ApproachR...

I just met the cute and boyishly charming Brian Landau, a performing artist on YouTube. I was interviewing a couple of cute Asian men about interracia... READ MORE

QOTW: “Should I Stop IR Because Of Bad Sex?&...

This was quite the interesting Question of the Week: Hello. I hope this correspondence finds you well. Longtime follower of your blog and vlogs but fi... READ MORE

The ONE Thing That Transformed My Body in my 40...

Yesterday was my 44th birthday. I can’t believe it. I remember when a woman in her 40’s was on her way to being over the hill, less desire... READ MORE

Three Reasons Your Online Dating Profile Sucks.

I get so many private notes from fans about how they’ve tried EVERYTHING and STILL can get bites on online dating sites. Since it’s becomi... READ MORE

Very Smart Brothers Addresses “Negro Bed Wen...

Negro Bed Wenching. It’s a term that’s been used in recent years to disparage black women like us who date interracially. But like the wor... READ MORE

Is Martina Big Making a Huge Mockery of Black Wome...

Chemical injections that mimic melanin, “afro” hair extensions, plastic surgery for rounder, fuller facial features, butt injections. Mart... READ MORE

23 Year Old Aspiring Police Officer Hesitates to D...

The Question: Hey there, I see your videos sometimes on youtube and the videos attract me becayse I’m a white man that is only interested in bei... READ MORE

Join Us for the Loving Day Live Broadcast!

Happy Loving Day everyone!! To celebrate the 50th Anniversary of the landmark decision that made it possible for our kind of relationships to legally... READ MORE

Here’s What Happened When I Finally Tried He...

I first heard about henna during my nascent natural hair days, and haunted psychologist/hair guru Curly Nikki. She raved about the virtues of henna, h... READ MORE

Modern Millennial Women are Absolutely Deluding Th...

I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I’d bought a subscrip... READ MORE