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Black Girls Traveling: Break Some Ice In Iceland

  Break Some Ice in Iceland As I am always encouraging black women to explore the world outside the United States, I finally get to discuss Icela...
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Merry Christmas, My BB&W Family!

As we close another year together, I just want to take a moment to thank everyone who moderates, writes, comments, tweets, and likes the posts on this...
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Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Commen...

A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it’s own post.  Friends...
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Monday Punday #17

Monday-Punday # 17 SirLoin is pretty sure that it’ll take some folks a bit of cheating to deal with these (answers at the end … but don...
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Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”...

  Dear “Nothing But A Brother” and “I Don’t Date White Guys” black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season a...
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Christelyn Karazin Addresses Critics of Her Interr...

My, my, my. It seems to be that there’s some folks really feeling some kinda way about my promotion of interracial relationships with black wome...
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“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will...

I don’t know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring...
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The Last (Hilarious!) Episode of ‘Pursuit of...

‘Pursuit of Sexiness,’ the web series created by comediennes Nicole Byer and Sasheer Zamata has come to an end. The sixth and final episod...
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The Top 5 Most Ridiculous Anti-Beyoncé Statements...

Beyoncé has released a new album, which means that thousands of people went without lunch this week and that people who dislike the woman and/or her ...
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Important Tweet Chat Today About Colorism on #SheT...

You guys won’t want to miss this discussion about how damaging, soul killing, harmful, crippling, and cruel colorism continues to affect the bla...
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Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness...

If you are one of those unfortunate types that still find wonderment in the music of R Kelly then you have my condolences. Above and beyond the issue ...
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Monday Punday 16

Monday-Punday 16 SirLoinDeBeef gleefully watched as the cat, yet again, deposited another delightful post-internal gift on the Persian silk carpet and...
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Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner: Breaking Bread...

The holidays are supposed to be a time of celebration and cherished memories. Families, friends and old acquaintances find their way back to the nest ...
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What the Cuss?! More Media-Driven Anti-Black Woman...

A reader on our fan page brought this bit of bull-donkey to my attention and while I’m not surprised, I am sooo ticked off about the continued a...
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