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Candy Tolentino: The New, NEW Black Woman

Forget that she’s gorgeous. And smart. And innovative. And a fellow LMU alumna (although that in itself is enough for me to luv her). She’...
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Question of the Week: “I’m almost 30; ...

I just HAD to post this question in it's entirety--it's a bit long, but I don't care! SHE is why I write this blog everyday. SHE is why I'm writing ...
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Style: Do You Dress Yourself Blindfolded? Fashion ...

Exclusive interview with Brenda Kinsel, image and style expert extraordinaire ...
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Are You a Sh-Alpha? No Wonder He Didn’t Cal...

If you see yourself in this list, you may be doomed to live alone with 100 cats. ...
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Do Black Men ‘Hate’ Black Women?

The answer might not be as simple as you think....
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Real Advice from my Mother-in-law: Maximize Your R...

Sometimes, you can learn a thing or two from your elders....
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WARNING: ‘Mr. Chaos’ Comes in Rainbeau...

Nothing is coincidence and bad luck doesn't find you Dramisha, unless you're in an open field, in the middle of a lightening storm, flying a kite with...
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Lil Wayne is a BIG Pain: the dung that is rap musi...

Anyone remember how they got rid of all those gremlins? Because it's time to clean some house. And while we're at it, Lil Wayne's teeth, which by now...
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Newsflash: Not EVERY black man is a “KINGâ...

Just because you're black, does that make you a queen? A king? And what the heck are you ruling over because the black community is effed the eff up...
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Sophia A. Nelson Talked Me Off the Ledge!!!

Everybody needs someone whom you can babble on and cry like a two-year-old. Sophia's my play sister. ...
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Fight the urge to pick your hood-boogers: Why EVER...

If you're not born into it, grow some from scratch....
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Ain’t I Beautiful, Too?

Photographer, Herb Way looks beyond the Barbie. ...
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Question of the Week: Do You Know When You’...

No...it's not what happens when you fart near a lighted match....
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BWIP: Nekkid Yoga is the Bidd-ness!!

Picture me, showered, lubed up with massage oil, Young & The Restless, and a yoga mat. (picture included!!!)...
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