Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re ...

A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so def... READ MORE

Best Cities For Interracial Dating

What are the Best cities for interracial dating & relationships? I’m working on a master list NEVER BEEN DONE before (not sure why tho) on an in... READ MORE

Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference...

Okay well he didn’t say that…exactly. Here’s what this 20-something white guy actually wrote… Mrs. Karazin,I’m not asham... READ MORE

Why I Have Mixed Feelings About the Firing of the ...

I remember when I was working as a lowly PR grunt representing a bagel company and trying to get a mention on the “Opie and Anthony” show ... READ MORE

New Documentary on the Black Church Shines a Light...

I have to give credit where it’s due, because columnist Deborrah Cooper was the first to shine a light on how the church exploits black women an... READ MORE

Have I Got You Curious Enough to Try Yoga? Online ...

  I’ve been preaching the benefits of yoga on this blog for years because quite frankly, it works. It is such a holistic mode of exercise t... READ MORE

One Black Mother’s Heartbreaking Story of Ra...

When I read this very personal account from Breukelen Bleu, the founder of the Black Woman Think Tank, I knew I had to share it. So much of the criti... READ MORE

July is My Birth Month! Countdown to 41!

Last week I took this picture to memorialize how I look at 40. If you would have told my 20 year-old-self that I’d feel better and look better a... READ MORE

Grow It in a Bag: Patio-To-Plate Encourages Contai...

As I turn off a dusty road in Temecula wine country, I can’t help but be impressed with Catrina’s green house, where she’s growing j... READ MORE

Five 100% Natural Beauty Products that Work 100% o...

I’m proud to say that the majority of the things I put into my body is natural and organic, but I can’t say the same thing about what goes... READ MORE

Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman&#...

First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I’m glad you’re listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter... READ MORE

QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Rel...

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at romance?... READ MORE

Riddle Me This: What Other Award Shows Have Actual...

I’m convinced most of the wealthy black elite class in America could not give two negative phucks for ‘regular’ black people, and th... READ MORE

Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Ha...

This photo and subsequent caption came along my Facebook feed, and not the first time–I’ve seen lots of propaganda of late advocating poly... READ MORE