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My Semi-Formal Announcement…The “SheThrives” Network is Set to Launch in Two Weeks!!
I’ve been itching to share this news with all of you for months, but I’ve had to bite my tongue until we got close enough, because I was afraid evil dwarves from the Netherworld might sprinkle bad luck juice on the whole thing. Call me paranoid, but evil dwarves are REAL.
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Gwyneth Paltrow, 40, Makes “People’s” Most Beautiful Woman
Gwyneth Paltrow graces the cover of People magazine’s most beautiful woman. What’s your take?
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Leah Sarago, Creator of “Ballet Body” Chats with BB&W About ‘Feminizing’ Your Workout
Yesterday I got the pleasure of speaking with Leah Sarago, fitness expert, dancer, and creative genius behind a DVD series that is literally feminizing my body.
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True or False? “White Guys Only Date Black Women After They’ve Had White Kids with White Women!”
Are white guys giving their best years to white women, then after the kids and divorce, moving towards something different and new?
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A Breakthrough In My Health Routine That Brought Some Empathy…
In order to continued to shrink my waist and at least feign an hourglass figure, I had to come to terms that I had to give up something I really enjoyed and gave me comfort: DRINKING.
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On Vetting: “How the Heck Do You Do That?!”
I got this letter a while back and I didn’t answer right away because it’s such an important question, and I just don’t take this stuff lightly.
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Friday Funny: Have You Seen This Dude on You Tube?
Notice he does a perfect impression of ‘Boomquisha?’ You got to love this creative hustle. They’re making us laugh while they cash in at the bank. Good on them! AHAHAHAHAHAHA!
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Abiola Abrams and Mollena Williams Address Now-Infamous Letter That Called Interracial Relationships Into Question
A boatload of you asked me to address the letter published in Essence.com from a black woman who alleged that her white husband called her racial slurs during sex. Many of you thought the letter was a complete fake, manufactured with every known cliche thrown at black women in order to preclude them from dating out.
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Mid-Week Inspiration: Kenya Moore Has a Booty Workout!
Since I don’t watch ratchet reality shows, I have no idea whether or not Kenya Moore is the enemy or not, so please don’t judge me.
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Question of the Week: Rainbeau Needs Advice on Dating Older Black Women
A 24-year-old rainbeau asks my advice on dating older black women…let the discussions begin!!
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Love Class! Dating Out of the Box: Interracial, Interfaith & Online with Abiola Abrams!
BB&W special guest, Abrams discusses Interracial Relationships, Interfaith Love and Online Dating with Author Damona Hoffman, a columnist for JDate and the Huffington Post has a new book called “Spin Your Web.”
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The Best Explanation for Why [Some] Black Men Troll Black Women’s Blogs.
They are running out of mammies and mule to carry their water. Boo fricking-hoo. More black women are realizing that it’s not our sole responsibility to worship, uplift, and carry water for black men out of some mythical historical duty. Let the “blacklash” begin.
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And Again…Fresh Off-Topic Thread!!
By immediate demand, here is your fresh OT thread…
By the way, I’m working on building a forum/message board on the blog so that you all can congregate and not worry about comment overload. However, it will cost me money. If any of you would like to contribute, you can drop a few bucks in the Paypal tip jar at karazin@sbcglobal.net.
Now OT away!!
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A White Guy’s Honest Opinion About Black Women…and Their Weight.
Here’s a warning: Ladies who are doggedly defensive about anyone ever saying anything critical about their physique might want to scroll on to the next post, because this guy is giving an honest (and somewhat raw) opinion that I’m sure is going to offend some-dang-body.
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