Feeling Lonely? Isolated? Use Social Media to Create Your “Circle of Support”

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I recently got a note from a black woman married interracially, and it got me to thinking about how sometimes, interracial relationships can cause … [Read more...]

The Unfair ‘Options’ Media Message: What Do These Two Magazine Covers Tell You?

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As a former public relations executive, I can tell you without any doubt that the media sends us messages--messages that we expect, messages that … [Read more...]

(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and Interracial Dating.

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Writer: Hey my name is "Sue" I'm a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date white men my last … [Read more...]

Open Thread: Does Being a Natural Make You Feel Like a Different Person?

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I have a confession. I don't think I'll ever where my hair straight again for any length of time. Why? Because I feel like straightening my hair … [Read more...]

QOTW: White Guy, 51, Ready to Get His Swirl On…

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The question: Just wanted to say thank you for your advice on fyooz for non-black men on dating or even just letting a black woman know that I'm … [Read more...]

Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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Since I can only take one post per day of people attacking me on my opinions on whether the sky is blue or not, I'm going to simply report the news on … [Read more...]

Unspeakable! New Jersey Reporter Fired for Telling the DAMN TRUTH!

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We live in such a crazy time in America, when saying the obvious will literally get you fired and physically and socially ruin you. I know back in … [Read more...]

Open Thread: Reader Questions Her Commitment to ‘Black Love’

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Some people wonder why this blog continues to talk about black men in reference to black women dating interracially. It would seem at the surface, … [Read more...]

Got to Give Credit Where It’s Due…Some Real Knights Rode in to Save Rachel Jeantel

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I have to admit I was among the folks who cringed with Rachel Jeantel took the stand in the Trayvon Martin murder trail. She was a walking, talking … [Read more...]

Hilarious Weird Al “Tacky” Has Aisha Tyler and Jack Black Acting Ridiculous

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Weird Al's still got it! Jack Black is a twerking fool, and Aisha looks adorable even when she's trying to look tacky. On an aside, what … [Read more...]