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Oakland Paul: Two Women Badly Beaten, Only One Gets National Attention.

I have nothing new to say. Just sharing my observation of an obvious truth.  A truth I am just now learning to notice. It is the painful truth … [Read more...]

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Are You Vulnerable to Job Discrimination?

By Tammy Ghalden From all of the research I have read, my answer to the above question would be “yes.” However, there might be some explanations I … [Read more...]


Watch a Bunch of Black Women Cheering as Their Pastor Shouts, “These H*es Ain’t Loyal.”

My inbox has been peppered with messages about a sermon rendered by Pastor Jamal Bryant called “I’m My Enemies Worst Nightmare.” (yes, they wrote … [Read more...]


Biker Gang Rolls In to Protect Maya Angelou’s Funeral from Being Infected by Westboro Church Douchebags. Or…Not?

Generally I'm a little scared of biker gangs. It's rare that I hear news about them and say, "Woohoo, rock on, you leathery scary people!" So news … [Read more...]

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Lavern Cox Graces the Cover of TIME Magazine: Speaks on Race, Gender and Violence

There is no question that Lavern Cox is setting the world on fire. This African American beauty is one of the break away stars of Orange is the New … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Sexy Men Doing Yoga

I must admit, I like a man that is in tune with his body. Athletes and health conscious individuals are more than likely to have what I desire, … [Read more...]

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“Swirlr” Series Finale…Think It’s Going to Come Out How You Predicted?

There's a bunch of twists and turns in this one. Take a look and let's discus! … [Read more...]

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#YesAllWomen: Why Do People Feel So Entitled to Women’s Bodies?

By Pella Another day, another mass killing in America. At least that's what the headlines seem to say to me. It's almost what is expected on a day … [Read more...]


Could V. Stivano Be Another Yellow Rose Or Silly Rabbit?

Perhaps much to NBA Clippers owner Donald Sterling's dismay, V. Stiviano is not going anywhere any time soon.  The woman at the center of the fire … [Read more...]

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Dr. Phillygirl Pens a Book to Help Get You To “Doctor”

Beyond Black and White would like to throw some shine on one or our own, Phillgirl, who not only recently successfully challenged her PhD dissertation … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: You Nasty Boy, You Nasty……

They say, "Cleanliness is next to Godliness" but who wants to involve thoughts of the Pearly Gates at this leg of the race? Gym rats, athletes, and … [Read more...]


Photo of the Day: It’s a Wonderful World.

I'm one of the room mom's for my son's second grade class, and this grade has a patriotic performance around Memorial Day time.   I took this shot of … [Read more...]


DeBlasio Gives Lessons On How to Protect a Woman. Take Notes.

The media is so hard on mothers. If you're Michelle Obama, militant feminists complain that you shame the movement because you're happy with being … [Read more...]