Tichina Arnold is Not Here for DBR Men and Their Interweb Bull*hit


"Spare the rod. Spoil the child" is what the old folks say about teaching a youngin' about the circumstances and repercussions of one's actions . … [Read more...]

Essence Excludes Gabrielle Union’s Interracial Romantic Interest on “Think Like a Man Too.”

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I have to admit, I never saw Think Like a Man. And most likely, I won't be spending my change to see Think Like a Man Too. But let's for the sake of … [Read more...]

Oakland Paul: Two Women Badly Beaten, Only One Gets National Attention.

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I have nothing new to say. Just sharing my observation of an obvious truth.  A truth I am just now learning to notice. It is the painful truth … [Read more...]

Are You Vulnerable to Job Discrimination?

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By Tammy Ghalden From all of the research I have read, my answer to the above question would be “yes.” However, there might be some explanations I … [Read more...]

Watch a Bunch of Black Women Cheering as Their Pastor Shouts, “These H*es Ain’t Loyal.”


My inbox has been peppered with messages about a sermon rendered by Pastor Jamal Bryant called “I’m My Enemies Worst Nightmare.” (yes, they wrote … [Read more...]

Biker Gang Rolls In to Protect Maya Angelou’s Funeral from Being Infected by Westboro Church Douchebags. Or…Not?


Generally I'm a little scared of biker gangs. It's rare that I hear news about them and say, "Woohoo, rock on, you leathery scary people!" So news … [Read more...]

Lavern Cox Graces the Cover of TIME Magazine: Speaks on Race, Gender and Violence

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There is no question that Lavern Cox is setting the world on fire. This African American beauty is one of the break away stars of Orange is the New … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Sexy Men Doing Yoga

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I must admit, I like a man that is in tune with his body. Athletes and health conscious individuals are more than likely to have what I desire, … [Read more...]

“Swirlr” Series Finale…Think It’s Going to Come Out How You Predicted?

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There's a bunch of twists and turns in this one. Take a look and let's discus! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpcS0mPBTzk … [Read more...]

#YesAllWomen: Why Do People Feel So Entitled to Women’s Bodies?

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By Pella Another day, another mass killing in America. At least that's what the headlines seem to say to me. It's almost what is expected on a day … [Read more...]