Does Good Sex Matter…and If So How Much?

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As the resident sex-pert and relationship voyeur I'm often asked questions about the birds, the bees and....sex among and between humans. I'm not … [Read more...]

Come Hither: First Date Suggestions For Awesome People…

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Sooooooo...where were we? Previously we discussed how to become a man magnet and phone niceties for noobies. Oh, yeah,  he likes you. You like him. … [Read more...]

Proud to Be Black Y’all….But Not Necessarily: The Bi-Racial Conflict

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I'm stoked to see the 'what if' questions dancing around the site. For those of you who have not yet had children, and for those of you that do, … [Read more...]

Video: Skinfolk Ain’t Always Kinfolk–Culture Often Clash in “Swirling”

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A common misconception that I often hear from (mostly) black people is that somehow having the same skin color automatically means you will enjoy a … [Read more...]

Come Hither: Bees in the Trap (So He’s Checking Me Out…Now What Do I Do!?)

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If you read the first part of my little 'how to' on being a man magnet diva, you already learned a few new tricks meant to catch the eye of any red … [Read more...]

Come Hither: A Lesson in Being a Man Magnet

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Did I hear someone say they wanted to read about way in which to attract men? I'm sure I did, and since I'm privy to a life that many of you lovely … [Read more...]

Watch Those Potholes While on Your Way to Greener Pastures

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The ladies of the sites have written in detail about the general NWNW/BBW theme's insistence that White doesn't necessarily equal RIGHT when it comes … [Read more...]

VintageNarcissa: Potential Rainbeaus Now Closer Than Ever

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The other day, I showered and dressed all pretty, and did my hair, preparing to visit my dear boyfriend. I wore shorts and a nice stop, and my … [Read more...]

Five Quirky Reasons for the Rise of Interracial Marriage

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This piece will appear in the Huffington Post soon, but I thought I'd share it with the crew first... Five Unexpected Contributors to the Rise of … [Read more...]

Is Anyone Else Tired Of All The IR Lectures Directed At Black Women?

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I did my regular facebook check and I stumbled across this gem It isn’t that my friend isn’t smart, beautiful, funny, charming, and a great cook. … [Read more...]

(Pre) Loving Day Celebration: “Swirling” Book Giveaway!

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For many of us on this blog, the Loving Day, the anniversary of the 1967 ruling that legally sanctioned Richard and Mildred Loving's marriage like a … [Read more...]