Dating & Marrying Ethnic Men

Asian Man Gives His Perspective On Dating Black Wo...

Hi Christelyn,   I hope this message finds you well.  My name is Tim and I recently saw a Youtube video you had posted wherein you interviewed ...
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Asian Men: Not All Doom and Gloom! Show Us Your AM...

While I reported on my concerns about the colorist issues in the Asian community and how that hosts challenges for darker-hued black women, I want you...
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Three Types of Men Who Should Never Date Interraci...

Sometimes I get notes from non-black men who wring their hands over the prospect of dating a black woman, and often put up these roadblocks for why th...
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On Pleasing the BC: Damned if We Do…Damned i...

This post is not for the regulars. Just like I point out the good, I’m going to point of the bad. Not just bad, but utterly horrible. I was sent...
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Is it the Culture or the Color that’s Turnin...

  We’ve talked a lot about preferences vs. IR via serendipity. Some of us have always dated interracially and have a certain “type...
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AMBW: “My Mom Acting Like I Disgraced Her By...

First off, I LOVE this couple. Dude is cuuuuttteee….. This is just so beautiful…looks like Lee, the husband, is stepdad to Maze’s fo...
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White Women, Your Men Are Doing Better With Women ...

Okay got to admit that that was a little bit of click bait. But that doesn’t mean it’s not true. Looks like white guys who marry, oh…...
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My Cousin Just Married Interculturally, and It Was...

I love when I see beautiful black women who are moving on and maximizing their options to include men of other races and cultures for dating and poss...
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QOTW: 40, Clueless, and Living in…Miami?!

Wait…what??! Hello Christelyn Karazi, I am a 40 year old single mom ready to mingle ( son went to college ). I have not dated in years ( literal...
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Fan Says, “We Need to Be More Vocal of Our L...

A fan asked me to share… Dear Christelyn, First of all, let me thank you for all the wonderful work you do. You have opened the eyes of many and...
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Dear Black Men, Did I Hurt Your Feelings? You Don&...

Warning: This is a LENGTHY read, so you may want to go get a snack or something to eat while you read this.  I was in the middle of writing follow-up...
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Black Women’s History (Kissing the Asian Guy): C...

By Stan Solomillo   In 2007, a popular blog, “Sardonic Sistah Says,” noted that the resolution of the romantic interest between the l...
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Zara: Asian Men, Black Women…So Undesirable,...

I was 16 years old, and it was my first semester at my boarding school in western MA, USA. I was cold. I was always cold. I’m from the tropics s...
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AM/BW: “Never Settle for Secrecy”

By Mamie Mooney I’m a huge fan of interracial dating. I just want to say that before I continue. It is my belief that people are made to love an...
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