Black Female-Centered Media is Coming Around to Our Side, but is It Only Because the NY Post Said it Was Okay?

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Before the New York Post wrote about Jacque Reid's reversal of her decision to participate in my coaching, I was often the running joke of online … [Read more...]

He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street Harassment with Dual Perspectives

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Editorial by: Howard Tyrone Smith II Video: Christelyn Karazin HE SAID... The murder of Mary "Unique" Spears and countless other women that … [Read more...]

Black Man Admits Hood Dudes Corrupt Black Women’s Wombs Through Sabotage, But Stops Short on “Swirling” Option

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by Christelyn Karazin Sometimes my You Tube channel is riddled with trolls, but sometimes a few nuggets of teachable moments come through to … [Read more...]

The Unfair ‘Options’ Media Message: What Do These Two Magazine Covers Tell You?

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As a former public relations executive, I can tell you without any doubt that the media sends us messages--messages that we expect, messages that … [Read more...]

Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so … [Read more...]